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I'm scared of getting hurt if I tell him I love him so how should I tell him?

Q.   Problem! I am with this guy, i'm crazy about him, think about him all the time, want to be with him all the time. Basically i love him. And i want to tell him that i love him. But 1 - I have only loved once before, but that relationship en...

A.   6 July 2009: Just don't blurt out the L word randomly, without reason. Do it when it the moment is right. Like right after he does something nice for you, so that way it wont seem all awkward and forced. It will instead seem natural and meaningful. Hey, if ... (read in full...)

Seeing a married man and he wants us to have sex in his wife's bed!

Q.   I'm 18 and seeing a married man of 40, and its just mainly sex but i wish he would leave his wife for me, we usually have sex in his car and he suggested how hot and thrilling it would be to have sex in his and his wife's bed? The only thing...

A.   1 July 2009: Not a good idea. You will most likely get caught. And the age difference, too huge. Shouldn't you be worrying about your future? Your only 18. Leave the man alone, he has a wife for heavens sake. Someday you will find a single man who respects you. ... (read in full...)

Help!!! How can I get over him?

Q.   Couple of months back i lost my virginity to this boy I'd gotten to know pretty well - who had been chasing me for a while. Personality wise we were a great match and always got on amazingly, thing is he was always open about the fact he wasnt ...

A.   1 July 2009: He is a player and he isn't worth your time. Go out there and live your dreams and make sure that he isn't apart of them. A guy like that doesn't deserve someone like you. He was obviously after one thing, and a man like that is always messing ... (read in full...)

I enjoyed my sexual encouter with a girl more than I do guys. Does this make me a lesbian?

Q.   I recently slept with a woman for the very first time...and I really loved it. It was the most erotic, sensual sex I've ever had. I easily liked it better than being with guys (which I have a good amount of experience with). So this defenitely makes ...

A.   1 July 2009: Well, it depends. Have you ever actually been in a meaningful relationship with a girl? If not then perhaps this is just an exciting and new experience for you, a nice change apart from all the dull sex that you have been having with other guys. ... (read in full...)

Don't have any luck with girls! Could my height be the reason behind this?

Q.   this is embarrassing. i think i have a really good body..but i dnt hav a gf. obviously good girls aren't shallow jus to go for a bloke who takes care of himself.. so i think i hav an ugly face cuz i always hear how girls ask a guy out but i never ...

A.   1 July 2009: You have probably heard this a million times. But i will tell you it, in spite of emphasizing an important point! Looks are not everything, ok yes to some degree looks matter but you have to factor in the personality as well. It seems to me that... (read in full...)

How could he change so suddenly? what's going on?

Q.   hello agony aunts and uncles! im sorry this is so long and drawn out but its been niggling at me for a log time now and i just need a bit of help or some insight as to whats going on. first of all i belong to a youth organisation, and im curre...

A.   1 July 2009: yeah...i'm going through the same exact thing right now and i will tell you that it is incredibly painful. Especially when you are in love with the guy. But take this into consideration, maybe you were moving a little to fast for him. Guys tend to ... (read in full...)

Do I tell him my feelings or get over him? He has a girlfriend!

Q.   Hey everyone, I'm sixteen years old. It's important you know that I am a very shy, reserved person before I share with you my predicament. Ok, so about a year and a bit ago, I met this guy, we'll call him Ed. He was insterested in my friend...

A.   1 July 2009: stay his friend. So that way if he loses his girlfriend, you'll be there for him...he'll run back to you and then the two of you could go out. There is no sense in sacrificing the friendship that you have with him, when in turn it could grow into ... (read in full...)

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