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Finally Cured from my married lover!

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7 October 2009: Over the summer I wrote 3 articles Wives who let their husbands cheat? How to move on after your married lover dump you? Mistresses we need stop! After 2 years of dating, 4 years of freindship my married lover moved to another state without ...

Mistresses we need to stop!

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10 July 2009: When are we going learn? I must of read about 50 stories about mistresses hoping their married lovers leave their wives, or why they are not calling. I was just someone's mistress myself for almost two years. One thing we all have in common is we ...

How to move on after your married lover left you.

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2 July 2009: I been recently dumped by my married lover. No I did not want him to leave his wife. He left me , because he was losing control of her, and he is trying to get it back. I'm hurt, because I thought we were friends, and he moved out of town, and ...

Wives who let their husbands cheat!

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1 July 2009: Alot of blogs are about married men and their mistress hurting the wife. What about the wives who let their husbands cheat? I will share my story. I was dealing with a married man for almost 2 years. I known him for 4 years. He chased me for 2 ye...

Gaining your lover's trust back!

Q.   Ok so you lost your partners trust… whether it may be resulted from cheating or lying, it's gone from you now. I have plenty of experience in this topic for I have been through it myself and I was the one who lost trust for my partner. Once you lose ...

A.   15 October 2009: You make a excellent point, but sounds like to much work. If someone needs to do all that, you need to leave him. Who has time to be questioning some man like that? Find someone you can trust. You can't trust again. Trust is like nuclear energy ... (read in full...)

Mistresses we need to stop!

Q.   When are we going learn? I must of read about 50 stories about mistresses hoping their married lovers leave their wives, or why they are not calling. I was just someone's mistress myself for almost two years. One thing we all have in common is we ...

A.   11 August 2009: NYna you are right! I wish I had the sense you seem to have. We all make mistakes people come at you in different ways, and depending where you at in life. You could be vulnerable. Not you specifically in general. Everyone says he says he's married ... (read in full...)

Wives who let their husbands cheat!

Q.   Alot of blogs are about married men and their mistress hurting the wife. What about the wives who let their husbands cheat? I will share my story. I was dealing with a married man for almost 2 years. I known him for 4 years. He chased me for 2 ye...

A.   21 July 2009: Quiet echo, I forgot to answer your question. Yes her refusal would have helped to stop the affair. My own way I would tell her, he was over my house the night before, or that he brought me gifts. I wanted to see if she cared to say something to me ... (read in full...)

Wives who let their husbands cheat!

Q.   Alot of blogs are about married men and their mistress hurting the wife. What about the wives who let their husbands cheat? I will share my story. I was dealing with a married man for almost 2 years. I known him for 4 years. He chased me for 2 ye...

A.   21 July 2009: Quiet- Echo you are so right. There were two lonely women in this picture, and very deceitful man. Yeah she knew about the affair, and I all but told her we were having sex. She didn't want to ask questions, just to have maximum deniability. That ... (read in full...)

Dating a married man. I just want him to be with me

Q.   hello, i dont want any hurtful or rude comments, iam writing to everyone here because i think this is a site for evryone to write about their problems and feeling's. Well, iam seeing a married man. i have been seeing him for 2 1/2 years now. i got ...

A.   20 July 2009: I completely understand, where you are coming from. I just came out of a 18 month relationship with a married man 6 weeks ago. I didn't want him to leave his wife for me. I just wanted to be apart of his life. He moved to another state I thought we ... (read in full...)

Mistresses we need to stop!

Q.   When are we going learn? I must of read about 50 stories about mistresses hoping their married lovers leave their wives, or why they are not calling. I was just someone's mistress myself for almost two years. One thing we all have in common is we ...

A.   14 July 2009: Well girly girl! If that is what is going to get you to the next level, then do it. You do get tired of being hurt. His wife and him moving does help me, but because he never said bye, or because i haven't heard from him still leaves me hurt. Wh... (read in full...)

Mistresses we need to stop!

Q.   When are we going learn? I must of read about 50 stories about mistresses hoping their married lovers leave their wives, or why they are not calling. I was just someone's mistress myself for almost two years. One thing we all have in common is we ...

A.   12 July 2009: Well anonymous writer. Don't beat yourself up over this. Loneliness is a very powerful emotion. If you see a way of it do it. Your boyfriend keeps leaving you alone, if it was the other way around he would be doing the same thing. What I'm trying to ... (read in full...)

Mistresses we need to stop!

Q.   When are we going learn? I must of read about 50 stories about mistresses hoping their married lovers leave their wives, or why they are not calling. I was just someone's mistress myself for almost two years. One thing we all have in common is we ...

A.   12 July 2009: You and I have more in common talking to you is making me feel better. I get where you are coming from now. You want him to lose you and her. I like that. I was there too. Wives are too unpredictable. The guy I was involved with wife use to play so ... (read in full...)

Mistresses we need to stop!

Q.   When are we going learn? I must of read about 50 stories about mistresses hoping their married lovers leave their wives, or why they are not calling. I was just someone's mistress myself for almost two years. One thing we all have in common is we ...

A.   11 July 2009: Well MS. Girly Girl, more than likely his wife knows. In my case it was right in her face, she went along with it. From what your saying, your sitauation is different. We know as women, when another woman is dealing with are man. To answer your ... (read in full...)

He told me he was divorced now I want him to leave his wife for me!

Q.   I know your all gonna call me bad names but its so hard, i really like him and miss him loads, when i met him he told me he was divorced and i deserve a nice rich boyfriend and said he would fit that category, hes a lawyer and gets paid a fair ...

A.   10 July 2009: You sure got everyones attention, but I'm not going to be mean. You seem to be really young. He's not leaving his wife for you. Judging by the sound of your affair, he won't be around long. My advice is to leave him alone. If your not, make him ... (read in full...)

Should I believe a Married Man?

Q.   About a month ago I was out havin drinks with a friend of mine. we met two guys at a bar and started havin great convo. at the end of the nite we kissed and i got his number 2 days later i sent him a text and 2 days later i got a response. later on ...

A.   10 July 2009: Girl run like hell. Who cares if he is telling the truth? He hasn't left his wife. If he's not happy, then he should leave. I just got out of this kind of situation, so I'm not making judgement on you. Your walking into a lot of hurt. First red flag ... (read in full...)

Should I give up my married lover? He says he wants to break up with his wife... again.

Q.   I know this is the same old scenario and I have only myself to blame, but I really am at my wits end. I have been involved in a relationship with a married man for over 12 months now. His wife knows about us and has done since day one pretty much. ...

A.   9 July 2009: I just gone thru a similar sitauation with my married lover of 18 months. The wife knew too. Infact, she and I would discuss him. He brought me to the house, around his kids, and they babysitted mine. the difference is I never wanted him to leave ... (read in full...)

How do I convince him our marriage can be saved?

Q.   My husband left me four months ago for another woman, he had been having an affair for over a year. basically i want him to come home and give our marriage another chance. (we have been married 20 years) he says he loves me but not in the right ...

A.   8 July 2009: I'm so sorry this is happening to you. 20 years is a long time, and let's face it who wants to start over. How you convince him your marriage can be saved. Simple start behaving like you have no interest in him. As long as you are letting him know ... (read in full...)

How to move on after your married lover left you.

Q.   I been recently dumped by my married lover. No I did not want him to leave his wife. He left me , because he was losing control of her, and he is trying to get it back. I'm hurt, because I thought we were friends, and he moved out of town, and ...

A.   8 July 2009: Yeah it will take time to get over it. You have to love the wives, they will stick with their man at all cost. Many of these men are very insecured. They just wanted to have fun, and they didn't put much emotion into us. Logic will tell a normal ... (read in full...)

How to move on after your married lover left you.

Q.   I been recently dumped by my married lover. No I did not want him to leave his wife. He left me , because he was losing control of her, and he is trying to get it back. I'm hurt, because I thought we were friends, and he moved out of town, and ...

A.   2 July 2009: The guy and I have been friends for 4 years. 2 1/2 years we were friends with no sex. His wife seemed to not mine him being friends with other women. Around that time my husband at the time and I had split up. I didn't really know anyone, but I ... (read in full...)

He has stopped talking to me and I don't know why... What should I do? I still like him.

Q.   This is a really long question... Especially from a kentucky girl like me.. But please answer becuase I am soo heart broken over this :-( Ok, so here it goes - I met this one girl named Dawn and she introduced me to her guy friend, Beckson....

A.   2 July 2009: Sorry sweetie, that this happened to you. I just been dumped too and the guy left town I haven't heard from him since. It sounds like he is seeing your girlfriend. You are not crazy. You just wanted answers. People who do things like this are ... (read in full...)

Seeing a married man and he wants us to have sex in his wife's bed!

Q.   I'm 18 and seeing a married man of 40, and its just mainly sex but i wish he would leave his wife for me, we usually have sex in his car and he suggested how hot and thrilling it would be to have sex in his and his wife's bed? The only thing...

A.   2 July 2009: I will not criticize you about seeing a married man, because the man I was dating is married. However why would you be seeing a man who is forty years old, and your 18. Your too young to be dealing in these situations. The man obviously has some ... (read in full...)

My affair with a married man ended but I still love him, what can I do?

Q.   I am a married women last year i had an affair with a man i work with his wife found and he told me that it was over between us,how can he say this when he told me he was going to leave her and he loved me all the time we spent together he was ...

A.   1 July 2009: I am in your shoes. The wife knew about the affair and didn't care. He knows that she knew. He wants to beleive that he is working on the marriage. I never wanted him to leave his wife. I truly believe she will leave him. They moved to another ... (read in full...)

My affair with a married man ended but I still love him, what can I do?

Q.   I am a married women last year i had an affair with a man i work with his wife found and he told me that it was over between us,how can he say this when he told me he was going to leave her and he loved me all the time we spent together he was ...

A.   1 July 2009: I'm going thru a similiar situation at this time. In my case the wife known, and when her husband told her, because they were moving, she played like she didn't know. I wasn't the usual mistress. I could call his house. He even brought his kids ... (read in full...)

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