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*ephertite
writes:I have been seeing this guy.. he says he hasnt been with any other girl in 3 yrs.. and well I'm from a traditional Catholic family.. so u know I'm still virginal'and all.. and the other night he and I got too far (heavy petting, but no sex- i stopped him). But now he doesnt call or text me. And that night he said he loves me, but can't commit. This just has FLING written all over it doesnt it? !
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reader, cutiemax09  +, writes (2 July 2008):
 well that means he just wanted to have sex with you then leave you like most guys do. You are very smart and you have common sense because you said no and you stopped him. When boys want to have sex with you they will tell you anything you want to hear so they can get it. Take care!!!
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reader, Nephertite +, writes (28 April 2008):
Nephertite is verified as being by the original poster of the question Oh my God!! Datingshoes! I was going to click on excellet for ur reply... but I very ACCIDENTALY clicked on very poor! But honestly!! I loved your feedback!! I mean I feel better... slightly at least... cuz I think I really invested too much emotions into this, hence allowing myself to have gone far enough with him. Reading what you had to say has really made me feel like I did the right thing. Ugh.. well he has in fact contacted me- 1 text msg... but it's just soo blearghhh and I'm gonna walk away before I get too hurt. Thanks again everyone for your insightful comments!!!
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (28 April 2008):
 Maybe! or it could be that he respected your wishes and didnt lie to you just to get you to sleep with him.
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