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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Could someone give me an opinion on my "relationship-situation". At the end of Jan, I intimated to my flatmate that I liked him and it was essentially unreciprocal. Nevertheless, he has continued to confuse me by wrestling with me, teasing me, saying things with inuendo. Anyway, I couldn't take it anymore so I moved out. I wrote previously about him not saying goodbye, the suggestion was that he might like me. But when I went back for my things, he made a joke out of it. So I didn't get upset. He asked for my email. He wrestled with me. When I went to leave he hugged me and lifted me up. And, he has this jumper that he'd leant me before. I said, wasn't I getting to keep it. And he said I could borrow it, so he tooked it off and gave it to me. I wasn't seriously going to take it, but he forced it on me as I left. Now, I apologise, I realise this is comparatively asinine compared to other readers/posters, but I am so confused. When he smiles at me, I feel like my heart is full. And I just wish that he was consistent. It's like he throws me a bone, and like a puppy I get all hyper. A horrible analogy but true. Perhaps he just thinks of me as a "pal" or something, but to call me "doll face" and "beautiful" and hug me like that just messes with my emotions. I am an adult, but for a joke, I have held his jumper randsom. I left a note with a big of wool, and thought that that would instigate the yet unreceived email. But he hasn't emailed me. I cannot contact him. Do I just accept it is not meant to be, and that if he was interested, and knowing that I am, at 28 he would be able to get in touch?! I would be so grateful to any advise.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (28 April 2008):
You did your best and you can't wait for ever.
Move on and you'll forget your feelings eventually.
It's his loss.
Good Luck!! xx
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