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3 July 2008: Ok... have you ever had a really good sneeze? You know the kind that feels like it starts from the toes and and there is a surge of power bulding up all the way till you SNEEZE and let it all out- no surpressing it- just an earth shattering ...
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I had a sex dream about his teenage sister! Why?
Q. I am 27 years old male. I have a friend, Stephen, that is a 23 years old male (I played football with him in high school). The problem is that I had a sex dream about his 16 years old sister, Lisa. In my dream we were in her room making out ...
A. 22 June 2012: Hello, no! Don't worry about it at all. People have dreams about random things all the time. But, don't take the random things literally! It's just the brain telling you.. or trying to tell you something about your life. COuld it be that you were ... (read in full...)
My co-worker crush is making a point of ignoring me!
Q. Hello everyone, Here's the deal: I have a big crush on a female coworker, that sometimes I think is reciprocitated, but sometimes I'm not really sure. The thing is, if I catch her alone in the hallway, she would make long eye contact, give me...
A. 12 June 2012: That's so cute. Aii.. you know if she actually flirts, she likes the attention. But, clearly she has a lot of inhibitions. If she is actually ignoring you so blatantly, when alone she doesn't then she's obviously self conscious. You say she's high... (read in full...)
Out of lonliness and desperation I hooked up with a transvestite and now I feel sick
Q. I'm in a huge dilema. I'm having a rough time dealing with being alone all the time. Ever since school let out for the summer, I don't see a lot of my friends as much as I use to (I live on campus, while most of my friends live off-campus). My ...
A. 12 June 2012: Hi there... you know the things is we all do things that we regret. It's normal. But, it's what we do to get out of this rut that matters. I am sorryt hat you feel this way. You probably feel sick because, toy ou it's not the norm. But like Honeypie ... (read in full...)
He lost interest, so I ended things. Will he miss me?
Q. So that guy I met on the internet over 6 months ago, ( we meet once ) has really really liked me but then he kinda seemed uninterested, (but we were still talking) in last few weeks so I said that I'm ending things with him as I'm tired of feeling ...
A. 8 June 2012: I'm sorry that happened to u. i know how painful & painfully frustating. that is. if everything is that good y lose the interest right ? What is the point of a sad status when he doesn't even contact u? Caring Guy is right ... as sad & difficult it ... (read in full...)
Dating/sex between super skinny guy and UK size 20/22 girl
Q. Hi, Please help - I'd really value some objective opinions! I joined an online dating site a few weeks ago and have since then met a lovely guy, who i have started going on a few dates with after exchanging emails and text messages. We've ...
A. 5 June 2012: The thing I find REAL men are attracted to is confidence. If a woman can hold her own, and not be bothered by the "prettier", "skinnier" women around her, then he notices that and before you know it, all the other women around don't seem even ... (read in full...)
How can I keep it a secret if I get involved with a married man?
Q. I posted a question earlier about a relationship with an older man who is married with children. I thought he was flirting with me and it turns out he was. We met to talk about the project we're both involved in and he drove me home (again!). I...
A. 5 June 2012: Hello. It seems like you really want it. But it also seems like you aren’t sure as well. Are you willing to get hurt? Because you will be likely to get hurt. It seems exciting and absolutely stomach-flipping fun now. But, that’s because it’s the ... (read in full...)
How do you recognize when your boyfriend is no longer interested in you?
Q. How do you recognise that your boyfriend is nolonger interested in you? Actually i mean the signs of him neglecting you...how can you recognise them. I am very confused and stressed,just having the thoughts that my guy has changed from the way i am ...
A. 5 June 2012: Hello. If you are feeling that way, then you are probably right. But why do you think that is happening? Are you giving him enough room to just be? The thing is women tend to become too nurturing and it may be mistaken for smothering. Try to rem... (read in full...)
How do you recognize when your boyfriend is no longer interested in you?
Q. How do you recognise that your boyfriend is nolonger interested in you? Actually i mean the signs of him neglecting you...how can you recognise them. I am very confused and stressed,just having the thoughts that my guy has changed from the way i am ...
A. 5 June 2012: Hello. If you are feeling that way, then you are probably right. But why do you think that is happening? Are you giving him enough room to just be? The thing is women tend to become too nurturing and it may be mistaken for smothering. Try to reme... (read in full...)
Boyfriend will be away for 2 weeks and I don't think I can cope with it
Q. Hi, My boyfriend of over 2 years is away to Europe for the next 2 weeks due to work commitments. We are extremely close, and best friends as well as a couple. This means that we see each other literally all the time and enjoy each other's constant...
A. 5 June 2012: My bf went away for a week once and it was DEVASTATING. it really was. I cried so hard every day .. but now looking back (we've broken up) I wish I was not like that. The reason why I felt that way was because we got so close and spent so much tim... (read in full...)
Have I missed the boat on dating and getting married?
Q. I'm 29 years old and I've never been in the dating or hookup scene. I didn't date in high school or college. I had two long distance relationships, the last one ended when I was 23. I have since been celibate. I have had many female friends, family ...
A. 4 June 2012: I'm an idiot - my bad, but it works the same way. Whomever you find.. will be DEFINITELY worth the wait. For now, be confident and sure of yourself. There's nothing more a woman loves than a man who's sure of himself. If you meet the ladies don't be ... (read in full...)
Should I ignore him? Or encourage him?
Q. Hi! So basically I met a guy online and we talked. Im 16 and he said he was 18 and we just talked in a friendly way, no "sexting" or anything. Then we started to chat on Yahoo and I really Sartre to grow fond of him. He even said he loves me. I ...
A. 4 June 2012: I was in that sort of a relationship once. Just could not stop talking to the guy. He was really sweet and I actualyl trusted him. The key to this is to go with your intincts. It's never wrong. if they are telling you to NOT trust him, then there ... (read in full...)
Why do I wake up in the night thinking about a guy I don't like?
Q. SO I recently started waking up in the middle of the night thinking about this guy I really dont like at all. Only problem is, Im horny everytime I do. I have no idea how to make this stop. Any ideas?...
A. 4 June 2012: Maybe you actualyl liek something about this guy? Perhaps the reasonw hy you don't like is why you are turned. Think about hwy you don't like him. Is it cuz he's so unavailable? Maybe is the way he does somethign to irk you, but u secretly find it ... (read in full...)
Have I missed the boat on dating and getting married?
Q. I'm 29 years old and I've never been in the dating or hookup scene. I didn't date in high school or college. I had two long distance relationships, the last one ended when I was 23. I have since been celibate. I have had many female friends, family ...
A. 4 June 2012: I'm 27.. never had a boyfriend, except one Long Distance Relationship... that's out the window now. I know how you feel. But sometimes you just gotta wait and let it happen. My sister never had a bf and at 28 she met someone and is finally getting ... (read in full...)
Advice on finding indian women who are looking for white men
Q. Hey everyone, I just wanted to find advice on something. I recently moved back to the Michigan area as a transfer for law school. I'm an aspiring and active young guy, I played college football, I work as a private contractor and project manager ...
A. 4 June 2012: As an Indian woman myself, I can tell you it's not that the woman is attracted to White men specifically. If she is attracted to you and you happen to be white, it's not because of your skin colour, but it's cuz you have something Indian men don't. ... (read in full...)
An Epiphany
Q. Ok... have you ever had a really good sneeze? You know the kind that feels like it starts from the toes and and there is a surge of power bulding up all the way till you SNEEZE and let it all out- no surpressing it- just an earth shattering ...
A. 4 July 2008: Awww thank you so much! Excellent reply/comment : I was actually feeling down.. really down but this made me feel like I shouldn't lose the faith I was yappin on about in the article. THanks again and yes i totaly get the thing about babies... ... (read in full...)
Why can't I be strong and stay away from this guy?
Q. I feel like I am losing my sense of self. I usually have everything together.. but ever since I met him I'm not myself. I miss me and I want me back! I tried ending it with him(and we werent in a relationship so what I ended was just a thing.. an ...
A. 3 July 2008: "Men who cannot let go choose women who can't say no"- This is AMAZINGLY true in my case because I really can't say NO. I'm gonna have to practice saying no.. its tough but I have to do it. I am going to take it one step at a time I guess.. I'll see ... (read in full...)
Is there any way to notice if you've had sex? Do you walk differently?
Q. my boyfriend and I are starting to have sex. last time, we were having sex and when i took his thing out of mine their was white stuff all over, an I think it might be his cum, but I cum alot and it might be mine, but he said it was not him because ...
A. 3 July 2008: Aww don't get defensive sweetheart.. your age range is 13-15 and that really IS VERY YOUNG to be having sex... its not enough to just research before taking a huge step like that.. you have to be emotionally mature enough and 13-15 is still the time ... (read in full...)
Why would a guy have sex with a girl and not want her to be his girlfriend?
Q. If a guy doesn't want a girl to be his girlfriend but still wants to have sex with her, does that mean that shes ugly or doesnt have a good personality?...
A. 3 July 2008: Sex is just sex... a relationship is a whole other ball game.. if you feel a man should be obligated to you since he slept with you, then only have sex when you are in a serious relationship.. that way you wont be the only one emotionally attached. ... (read in full...)
I used to be a strong person but now I feel weak and pathetic! Why can't I stay away from him?
Q. I used to be such a strong-willed person. Now I feel weak and pathetic. I really feel like such a mess all because of a guy. I have been in a thing ( i call it a thing because I don't know what it is!) with a guy for many many months now and its ...
A. 1 July 2008: Wow... thanks soooo much guys... Emj.. what you said affected me the most.. cuz I do deserve better and I need to move on.. I have confronted him a few times.. but he is always so evasive and I have had enough. I'm putting my foot down. Thanks a lot ... (read in full...)
He is unappreciative and seems to call only when he needs me - why do I feel I can be so easily swayed by him?
Q. Ughhh ok I am so frustrated... it honestly is an emotional roller coaster with this guy.. I talked about him earlier and I honestly thought it would be over with him- what with him not calling and all- so last night I get a call from him saying he's ...
A. 29 April 2008: fine i guess I am an idiot... ughhh and yes I have deleted him and I shall stay away.. thanks guys!... (read in full...)
Said he loves me, but he can't commit. This was obviously a fling???
Q. I have been seeing this guy.. he says he hasnt been with any other girl in 3 yrs.. and well I'm from a traditional Catholic family.. so u know I'm still virginal'and all.. and the other night he and I got too far (heavy petting, but no sex- i ...
A. 28 April 2008: Oh my God!! Datingshoes! I was going to click on excellet for ur reply... but I very ACCIDENTALY clicked on very poor! But honestly!! I loved your feedback!! I mean I feel better... slightly at least... cuz I think I really invested too much ... (read in full...)
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