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I want his love, but he said he wanted my "companionship"...

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Question - (6 March 2005) 1 Answers - (Newest, 1 July 2005)
A , anonymous writes:

I still love him so much.

I tried everything to get this guy off my mind.

When I told him that I loved him so much, he answered, that it scared him, as he didn't know what could be around the corner. I told him why wait for this corner to come, as it could be too late?

We previously had a month break and I had a 1 nite stand, trying to get him out of my system, but I went back into contact with him.

I feel as if he loves me the same way as I do, but doesn't show it for some reasons?!?!?!? Unfortunately he finds it difficult to express his emotions.

I think he saw himself (insecure) smaller than me in our relationship and that he was jealous of me, as I am very focused in what I'm doing (go getter).

I asked him what he wanted from me and he replied "companionship".But he didn't show me the affection I needed, so I left him in November. We parted in an unfinished row.

I still love him.

Please help me.

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A reader, xox?xox +, writes (1 July 2005):

Maybe this man is scared of commitment and even though he may have the same feelings for you, you are pushing him away by being too pushy ( pun not intended!! )

If he didnt give you the affection you wanted then why do you still nag after him? maybe you should take a step back and look at what he does to show you how much he loves you. If you cant see anything then maybe it's time to try and move on!

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