I want his love, but he said he wanted my "companionship"...
Q. I still love him so much. I tried everything to get this guy off my mind. When I told him that I loved him so much, he answered, that it scared him, as he didn't know what could be around the corner. I told him why wait for this corner to come, ...
A. 1 July 2005: Maybe this man is scared of commitment and even though he may have the same feelings for you, you are pushing him away by being too pushy ( pun not intended!! ) If he didnt give you the affection you wanted then why do you still nag after him? may... (read in full...)
How can I make sex wonderful for my virgin girlfriend?
Q. Hey everyone, I've been going out with my girlfriend for two months now, and recently she's started hinting that she might want to have sex. Which is great! But the one thing I'm worried about is that she's a virgin... I have had sex before and...
A. 1 July 2005: I think it's really great that you care about your girlfriend so much and hope she will be as comfortable as possible. You should start with oral which will make it easier for you to slide in your penis when you first have intercourse, what everyone ... (read in full...)
My husband's ex wife and 12-year-old son are breaking us up!
Q. I have some serious problem with my husband. We have been married for 4 years. I am 35 years old he is 52 years old. I have 3 children from a previous marriage and he has 2 children from a previous relationship. The problem is his children...
A. 1 July 2005: Firstly you must realise that the ten year old child is seeking attention, probably because he is a very insecure child who has underlying problems that need to be dealt with. I know he may get on your nerves, but what he wants here is love and... (read in full...)
Two dates, each followed by a breakup. Should I try a third time?
Q. Dear agony aunt, I went out with the same guy twice. We broke up twice. I broke it off twice because we never seen each other because he understandably had "family problems". We've recently been flirting again and I'm besotted by him again. He ju...
A. 25 June 2005: If you subtly want this man to know your feelings for him, without the fear of rejection from him. You really have to make the effort to talk and flirt with him while in a big group, this way he can see that out of all the people there, you have ... (read in full...)
I'm only 30 and I seem to have lost my libido!
Q. I am a 30 year old wife and mother of two, eldest 2.5 years and youngest 7 mths. I have lost all interest in sex. My husband goes out of his way to try to pleasure me and I can orgasim after a time but find I have lost my libido and don't really ...
A. 25 June 2005: Have you tried experimenting with toys? Most are extremely effective at stimulation and pleasure. Trying new things may also excite you and heighten your libido, especially if you include your husband. If you can afford it, why not get the kids loo... (read in full...)
A flirtation with a co-worker made me realise that I'm no longer in love with my partner...
Q. Hi there, I've been in a relationship for nearly 10 yrs now(since school). We have 2 children. Although I love my partner, I am no longer in love with him. I have met someone who I have totally fallen for and we have kissed on 2 occasions (through...
A. 24 June 2005: hi there, well to be honest i don't think the best thing to do was to kiss your colleague, as you are still married, but what has been done has been done, but i suggest you to not continue this practise untill you have sorted out your marriage ... (read in full...)
Having second thoughts about getting married to my fiance! Help!
Q. I am engaged and I am having second thoughts. I love him with all of my heart but I dont know if he is the one. How do I tell him?...
A. 24 June 2005: you must tell him this now or else it will become increasingly harder the longer you keep it underwraps. just sit him down and ask him how he feels about the engagemnet and the future, then bring in how you feel, but make sure to let him kno... (read in full...)
Months go by without me seeing my ex... then when I do, all the old feelings come back!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for about two years now (living together for one year) and we've been going through some hard times. There was this guy I was dating for about a month before I started with my current boyfriend, and there wa...
A. 24 June 2005: if you finished your ex due to "rumours" there must of been enough evidence to convince you they were true in order for you to have finished your relastionship with this man. most couples in a long term relationship do go through difficulties, bu... (read in full...)
I'm sick of his goatee, but he wants to keep it. Am I insane for missing his smooth face?
Q. Tell me if I'm insane. My husband has a goatee and I'm sick of it...I really miss his smooth face. I've asked him to shave but he becomes mad and refuses. It's been 9 months and now every time I look at him I just see this mean person who doesn't ...
A. 24 June 2005: I do sympathise with you, i know that to many people it doesn't seem like something worth fretting about, but when you are used to a person and have built up a physical image of them that you are both comfortable and used to seeing, it is strange ... (read in full...)
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