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I love and trust my husband but I don't feel sexual... at all!

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Question - (6 March 2005) 1 Answers - (Newest, 13 May 2005)
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Ive been with my husband for 4 years and married for about 2 years. I haven't wanted to have sex, it hasn't ever been my idea, I just don't feel sexual at all.

I'm wondering how to fix this problem. My husband brings it up a lot and all I can say is that "I have a problem and I don't know how to fix it". I have never had problems before with sex and had no problem with wanting to have sex, until we got together. The feeling just isn't there and I want so bad to fix this for me, him and our marriage because I love him so very much and don't want him to be unhappy in any way.

I trust him completly and know he would never go else where but I hate to think I'm making him unhappy in the bedroom. So I need any suggestions to help me with my problem, or tell me who to talk to. This has been going on for over 4 years now, it's been too long. Anyone help!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2005):

Trust me sweetheart, he WILL go elsewhere. Visit your doctor, you may have a hormone inbalance. Either way, it needs to be fixed and it is good that you have realised that.

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