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*elize
writes:Does penis size matter? Can a woman be satisfied with a small penis?
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reader, edithvic  +, writes (22 May 2011):
the penis size doesnt matter for me . ive had a partner with a 8inch size and i wasnt so satisfied. and the partner i have right now is way smaller and it feelt way better. i was satisfied
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2011): What satisfies you, satisfies YOU. Why? Only you know.The question is can YOU be satisfied with anything...or will a guy with a large penis have to small a mind, and a guy with a large penis and a brilliant mind have to abrasive a personality, or a guy with a large penis, a brilliant mind, and a wonderful personality to boot be just to smarmy for you to stand.Then you meet a guy who actually likes you, thinks you are the absolute greatest, and loves you for just being you...and you think he is just to good for you.I'm dead average size wise, penis and height and weight...but I've got really big feet and my shoe size must really turn my wife on because she's got way more sexual partner experience (100 times as many partners as I've had of all shapes and sizes...very different backgrounds) than I do and she has only had orgasms with me.Must be my shoes and tripping over them in the bedroom...
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reader, belize +, writes (19 May 2011):
belize is verified as being by the original poster of the question I'm more turned on by a larger 'cock'. I guess different stroke for different folks....Thanks very much for sharing your views.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2011): I am a guy so I don't know the answer but I think most women prefer something between 6" - 7". anyway you should try for yourself and please tell us which size you find most exciting.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2011): OP don't take this the wrong way but that's kind of a strange question from a 30-35 year old woman. Just because it's usually teenage boys and young adult men that ask this question, why do you want to know?
Seeing as you're a woman, I'll say it like this. Yes it does matter. Can a woman be satisfied with a small penis? Yes, it depends on how small and how important the feeling of being filled up during penetration is to her. At your age you should know whether you orgasm from penetration or whether only clitoral stimulation will work, if it's the latter then a guy with a small penis who is great in every other way and can still satisfy you sexually, that is fine.
One huge advantage you have is that you can actually tighten your vagina using kegels, so if you met a man who is small but he's pretty much your perfect guy in all other ways, then do kegels. There are also certain positions that help etc. If that's not enough and you still miss that being filled up feeling then you can always just introduce a dildo or vibrator into sex play sometimes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2011): If a man has less than 6" I'm not interested.I find small penises a major turn off.
Call me shallow, I care not.
Give me 8" anyday.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (19 May 2011):
 It's like waiting for the other shoe to drop...these daily penis size questions. The suspense is palpable.
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reader, gigolojone  +, writes (19 May 2011):
 Size don't matter but rather how well you use it.
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reader, mystiquek + ♥, writes (19 May 2011):
 It depends on the woman's preferences and the man's skills. There truly is no "catch all" answer for this.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (19 May 2011):
 I forgot to mention one thing that all women who have had sex know of, but virgins women and guys have no clue about: girth. That is what truly matters. If he's too thick then no matter how long or short it can be painful. If he's too thin, then no matter his length you might not feel him as much. A smaller girth however is usually better than a large one as being in pain when you have sex is no fun. All the women I have talked to prefer a guy who's got an average girth size, or thinner, as it is painful if he's too thick, and limits the number of positions you can use.
Again though, this is all relative as all women are different.
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reader, chigirl +, writes (19 May 2011):
Try it and you will know. If it is below average then there might be a problem, but anything that is average usually works. Women also come in different sizes though. Some are very tight, and fit better with a smaller penis, while some are naturally wide and will be better fit with a larger one. Most women are in "average" as well though and fit well with an average penis.
Average penises is everything between 3.9 inches to 7.9 inches.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2011): Everyones different what satisfied one woman might not work for another, so there is no real answer.
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