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writes:For me and my boyfriend's 1 year anniversary we went to the Morakami Museum, took a camera, loads of pics, everything was perfect. We sat down and ate, so I wanted to see some of our pics that we've taken so far. Going through them I saw pictures he took when he was at Jaycon (an anime convention; when people dress up like their favorite japanese characters.) Anyways this girl wearing a revealing kimono with her leg up (showing her thong) against my boyfriends lower area. I asked him about it and at first he said it was nothing and it was just a friend. Then I told him to tell me the truth, and asked him if a girl tried to kiss him what would he do. Then he told me, after the picture she did indeed try to kiss him, but he said he pushed her away and called her a whore and such. He's not the kind of guy to do that, so I'm uncertain. Though needless to say, this did ruin our 1 year. Any advice?
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reader, cd206  +, writes (18 January 2007):
 You know what? It may not be right but loads of people, especially girls around your age pose for photos like this. It seems your boyfriend's only mistake was not telling her he wasn't comfortable with it. You asked him if anything happened between them and he said no. If you don't trust him on this then your relationship will never work. Don't dwell on the ruined anniversary. If you're really upset about it why not apologise for the way you acted on the original day and celebrate again on a later date?
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reader, vina_101 +, writes (18 January 2007):
 Sorry about your anniversary...and I know you feel really dissapointed right now but you just have to try not to think about it too much. Don't dwell on it try to focus on positive things.Don't bring it up again just move on from it and try to get back to normal. Just take his word for it (that he didn't kiss her) and make sure he knows that he shouldn't do that kind of thing again. He's with you and I'm pretty sure he cares about you and wouldn't do anything to hurt you. Don't let a few photographs ruin your happiness.
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reader, melschatbox +, writes (18 January 2007):
 Awww..sorry to hear that happened to you! Hmm..wellll I don't believe in the old over used excuse"boys will be boys". I think we are all responsible for our actions and he should have never let this chick up against him in such a provactive manner. Furthermore, I think he kissed her...may not have been much..just a peck..but nonetheless a kiss! Don't tolerate that kinda stuff!
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