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Online communication is great! In person it is almost non-existent!

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Question - (15 June 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 25 June 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey. I really like this guy, and I think he likes me back. I’m worried that I’m getting my hopes up over nothing so could you tell me what you think, please?

We started off as mutual friends just speaking on msn but we’ve grown a lot closer recently. Things have really changed over the last few weeks. This is why I think there’s a chance:

- He starts a conversation with me almost straight away every time we’re online.

- He remembers a lot of little details about me, like names of pets and birthday.

- He texts me if he knows he won’t be online, even when he’s out with his mates and drunk.

- He sometimes stays online just to speak to me.

- He adds a lot of kisses when we say goodbye and text.

- He teases me a lot but is also really gentle and caring. We open up to each other.

- He bought me a present.

- He likes to make me laugh and cheer me up.

The problem is that we have difficulty talking to each other in person. We’re both very shy and I don’t know how to behave around him. We only talk to each other if we’ve both been drinking. Recently he’s been saying that we should meet up, just me and him. He asked me to go for a jog with him last week but I couldn’t go. I bumped into him over the weekend but we just sort of smiled at each other. Then I go on msn and he won’t leave me be. I think he might feel the same way as me as I recognize his behaviour in myself. I just wish it was easier for us to communicate in person!

I’d love any feedback. Thank you.

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A female reader, Miss Jackson United Kingdom +, writes (25 June 2010):

Aww, you both sound made for each other!! The problem is, u are both shy which you said, but when your face to face it is harder than talking online. When you are together alone just ask about what he's been up to, and simple stuff like that, after you've asked that he'll probably ask you and then you'll just get into a conversation without realising, just remember you've been talkin to him for a while he's not a stranger and just try to feel like yourself and how you are when on msn, good look and I hope this helps you :) x

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A female reader, mizz.butterflies United States +, writes (15 June 2010):

mizz.butterflies agony auntThis is so cute!!! Just arrange a movie date. This way,ur gonna be watching something,therefore u wont need to talk. Go watch a comedy so u can laugh.if u laugh together,the ice will break. Later that night go for icecream or a donought so u can discuss the movie.things will go from there.

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