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*rahamssssssss
writes:so there is this girl I have liked for a year or so and just recently I told her I like Her. We went to the same school and she knew me as a shy guy but now my only contact with her Is through Facebook and she was surprised that I liked her.Now that she knows what should I do.
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reader, no nonsense Aidan  +, writes (23 June 2012):
Are you certain that she knows? Have you explicitly told her, or just dropped hints and clues? The only thing you can do is tell her again how you feel, and ask her out. She might say yes, she might say she only wants friendship, but you won’t know unless you ask her. If you already have asked her and she’s said no, I’m afraid you’ve got to move on. You can’t make people feel differently, and you can’t wait in hope that one day things will change. So if you’ve not already told her that you’d want more and asked her on a date, do so, making sure you emphasise to her how much you value the friendship, whatever her response. If you already know she doesn’t feel the same, accept it.
I wish you all the very best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2012): Firstly, ensure she is single, and if possible check that she's not interested in or pining after someone else right now.
If that's all fine then talk to her more, get to know her that bit better, try to arrange to meet up with her (you do live reasonably close, right?) to go out on a day out together - somewhere you'd both like to go to, even if it's only to a park for a walk around, talk, etc. Perhaps treat her to a spot of lunch, or if too early or late for that then a drink (perhaps tea/coffee/hot chocolate in the afternoon).
But don't rush things, and don't try to spend /too/ much time with her, as that could potentially put her off you rather rapidly.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous12345150 +, writes (22 June 2012):
ask her out on a date ? if she says no then walk away
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