What is the key to happiness? Is it a sum of everything, or something specific (such as love)?
Q. They say you "can't find a home in the arms of a man", I suppose meaning that a man can't provide you happiness or be 'the big thing' of your life. I just wonder, what is the key to happiness if it isn't love (as in a relationship)? I...
A. 7 January 2013: there is no specific "key" it is all about your perception "life is what you make of it" is a good quote. but from my own experience from being at a very low point in my life and now in quite a happy time,i think it is all about having goals tha... (read in full...)
Was he over the top to break up over this after 2 years together? Was he looking for an excuse?
Q. My boyfriend and I broke up in April of this year. He had found out I was on dating sites again. I did not want to meet anyone, because I was in love with him. I used to go on dating sites to tease the guys on them and had no intention of meet...
A. 24 December 2012: i dont believe this question.......or your common sense.....
no.1 if you between 26 and 29 then you are incredibly childish to want to "tease" men
no.2 how can you not understand he's actions.....your in a relationship......yet your on dating s... (read in full...)
Did you ever have someone you were close to and now you don't talk to them at all?
Q. Hi all, I was just wondering if you had someone in your life you were pretty close to but at somepoint due to some circumstances had to stop talking and now you don't even acknowledge that person!? I do have,and I just want to know if they r people...
A. 21 November 2012: i spent everyday with my ex girlfriend for a year and a half,every single day,now we dont talk at all,also didnt talk to my mum for about 4 years so yes......unfortunately people come and go but its life i guess.... (read in full...)
How do I gain some confidence in myself?
Q. There is a girl at my work. She's pretty. I like her. I want her to like me as well. But I don't feel confidence in myself. I find myself utterly stupid and socially awkward. And ugly and unfunny. She has those beautiful eyes. She talks to me ...
A. 17 November 2012: you and only you have the power to change how you feel about yourself,till you don't feel good about yourself you shouldn't expect anyone else to.
1.go to the gym/exercise
as you notice your body changing you will feel better about how you lo... (read in full...)
Too embarassed to buy condoms! Help!
Q. I'm 19 and my bf is 22. We've been together for almost a year and we feel like we're ready to have sex. We understand the consequences of having unprotected sex. Hence despite both of us being virgins, we still want to use a condom. Problem is: ...
A. 9 November 2012: dont be silly....you just go and buy them if your not ready or adult or mature enough to buy them then you certainly are not adult or mature enough to have sex... (read in full...)
I've just broken up with my Gf. Can I have some advice please? Her mixed messages and all the pain I've been going through is a heavy load.
Q. My girlfriend of 2 and a half years just broke up with me on Saturday saying we need some space. She says I need to become more independent and self sufficient. I can see where she is coming from but I can't tell if it is tough love or forever....
A. 23 October 2012: Walk away and move on with your life.I split up with my ex about a year ago.was the worst time in my life.start going to the gym (worked wonders for me) I've lost 3 stone and look 100 times better than I did when I was in my relationship.also re ... (read in full...)
Saw my ex after almost 14 months of NC
Q. 2 days ago, I saw my very first ex boyfriend at the gym. IT had been about 14 months since we had seen each other. When he broke up wiht me he said he wanted to be friends and I flat out told him that I couldn't turn off my feelings for him...
A. 21 October 2012: i saw my ex at the gym a few weeks ago,we haven't spoke for about 6/7 months.i have been doing completely fine,but the shock of seeing her made me have a bit of a bad week,all the nostalgia came back etc just try not to read to deep into it,it ... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm losing my identity.
Q. i feel numb with my boyfriend but i have felt like this befor and it got better but i feel guilty for feelin this way because i know how much i love him and he loves me but sometimes i feel suffercatede by him , like today he was fingering my then i ...
A. 22 August 2012: you need to maintain your own goals/hobbies/interests/social group and life separate to your boyfriend.when a couple become very close it is like they turn into one person,this is a very negative thing and can lead to feeling like you have no ... (read in full...)
She had a one night stand while we were separated and refuses to see it as cheating!
Q. My wife and i seperated 2 weeks ago. We agreed that until things had settled down and the emotions were not as raw that neither of us would date etc. we have decided now that we want to give our relationship another go. However i have found out that ...
A. 3 August 2012: she slept with someone else this will bother you forever........i would end it if she loved you or cared about you that much she wouldn't have slept with someone else actions speak louder than words and sleeping with someone else is her action........ (read in full...)
Why is this guy I like treating me like trash?
Q. I am just very hurt because a guy I liked treats me like a trash or cheap whore something.. He disreapects me and absolutely dose not care about me. He did not ask to have dinner just used me as a booty call. this guy I met at the club. Is...
A. 29 July 2012: cerburus has nailed it if i was to comment id copy and paste hes answer... (read in full...)
When will these feelings for my ex go away?
Q. Why Is this happening to me? I hate my life:(. Mature answers please? My ex boyfriend and I broke up 15 months ago. I loved him so much, I thought we were in love cause of the way he cared about me. All my friends and family thought ...
A. 23 July 2012: look we all have breakups and people who get away and things that don't work out as we plan but the fact of the matter is life goes on all the relationship failures are just learning curves and tests that you need to go through to grow and develop ... (read in full...)
He is so selfish during sex I was nearly crying!
Q. I need help! My boyfriend is so selfish in the bedroom, we acctually end up arguing. He is my first sexual partner, I always do everything for him. We normally start kissing then go straight to having sex, and sometimes he goes so deep it hurts my ...
A. 1 July 2012: dump him.he sounds like the biggest nob head ever... (read in full...)
My sex drive has finished after a breakup, is that normal?
Q. hey me and my girlfriend split up about 4 months ago now I'm pretty good with it not 100 percent but I'm pretty happy,rediscovered my self identity etc.anyway my labido/sex drive has pretty much vanished,i literally don't have one anymore...is that ...
A. 28 June 2012: thats everyone.all helpful... (read in full...)
Does he really love me?
Q. Sometimes when i think about my relationship i feel like im the luckiest girl order times it's like my bf's playing with my feelings. it all because he has never been jealous even when i chat with guys he's just curious to know them. im saying this ...
A. 27 June 2012: the fact that he's not jealous is great,when a guy is jealous it is insecurity not love and passion,he's probably learned that being like that in his previous relationship didn't work out to well and doesn't want to make the same mistakes.make ... (read in full...)
Now that my crush knows I like her, what should I do?
Q. so there is this girl I have liked for a year or so and just recently I told her I like Her. We went to the same school and she knew me as a shy guy but now my only contact with her Is through Facebook and she was surprised that I liked her. Now th...
A. 22 June 2012: ask her out on a date ? if she says no then walk away... (read in full...)
Getting over a girlfriend's sexual past
Q. Hello, I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for 4 months now, im 19 and she is 21, I live in a small town and she has had sex with a lot of people I know in the past, I accept this as I do live in a small town, anyway I only found out ...
A. 31 May 2012: either man up and accept it completely or walk away,otherwise it will kill your relationship ... (read in full...)
Performance anxiety, serious problem or me?
Q. Hello, I'm getting worried now as me and my boyfriend has been together for a year and a half now and he has always struggled performing in the bedroom but we did manage it sometimes and when he did, we made the most of it. But recently it's got ...
A. 25 May 2012: dont lie to him and rap him up in cotton wool but try to complement him to boost he's self esteem.make sex sum thing relaxed and nice when sex feels like its pressured or a test or competition it goes downhill.also if he masterbates earlier in the ... (read in full...)
My wife had sex with 10 guys by the time she was 19 Is that normal?
Q. I am 35 and my wife is 34, and she has had sex with 11 men in her life including me. That might not sound like a massive number of partners relative to her age, but the other 10 guys were all between the ages of 15-19. From 19-30 she was with one ...
A. 17 May 2012: my previous partner had sex with 12 people and sucked of god knows how many she was 19 and i was 20 if it bothers u i would leave the relationship that stuff won't go away it will just destroy your relationship if it bothers u.also if you have ... (read in full...)
How should I have acted when I found out girlfriend had one night stands before me?
Q. in my previous relationship (recently ended) i got really annoyed when i saw people that my girlfriend (at the time) had sex with (always friends with benefits/1 night stands) (i was her first proper boyfriend) i would always get in a mood and go ...
A. 7 May 2012: not really cuz i no that she went to them for sex pretty much at the click of there fingers and she did want a relationship with most of them and no its not about what other guys think i didn't care about what they thought i just saw her as used ... (read in full...)
How should I have acted when I found out girlfriend had one night stands before me?
Q. in my previous relationship (recently ended) i got really annoyed when i saw people that my girlfriend (at the time) had sex with (always friends with benefits/1 night stands) (i was her first proper boyfriend) i would always get in a mood and go ...
A. 7 May 2012: thank you all for answering, all answers have been helpful in different ways.its weird tho when i saw sum1 she'd been with when we were together it would drive me mental now were split up I'm friends with sum of the guys she's been with (friends is ... (read in full...)
How should I have acted when I found out girlfriend had one night stands before me?
Q. in my previous relationship (recently ended) i got really annoyed when i saw people that my girlfriend (at the time) had sex with (always friends with benefits/1 night stands) (i was her first proper boyfriend) i would always get in a mood and go ...
A. 7 May 2012: its cool i just think of the mistakes i made in the relationship but sum things that i did i honestly wouldn't no how else i should have acted so i am trying not to look back in regret if its just the way i would have acted anyway if that makes ... (read in full...)
Am I just being blinded by love?
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for 4 months now and I do genuinely love her but a couple months ago she got really drunk on a night out with her friends and ending up dancing and kissing another guy AND they exchanged numbers. Realising what she had ...
A. 28 April 2012: friends with guys is 1 thing,
friends with guy she's been fucked by is another... (read in full...)
Am I just being blinded by love?
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for 4 months now and I do genuinely love her but a couple months ago she got really drunk on a night out with her friends and ending up dancing and kissing another guy AND they exchanged numbers. Realising what she had ...
A. 28 April 2012: i was in a similar situation i could handle the stuff your describing for about 6/8 months but in the end it all drove me crazy and i couldn't act ok with it anymore so a year and a half down the line it ended i wouldn't stay with a cheat but do ... (read in full...)
Would you date someone who has done porn?
Q. I am going to do a photo shoot in a few weeks...a photo shoot for a pornographic magazine and website. My closest friends, the only ones who know about it, have said that it may affect future relationships that I have. But is that really true? ...
A. 24 April 2012: i wouldn't touch a girl who had done porn i wouldn't even consider it... (read in full...)
He's stopped going down on me! What can I do?
Q. Hey there! I've been with my fiancé for a year now and we will get married in the Fall. I love him deeply and so does he. One little thing is bothering me though... at the beginning of our relationship he went down on me a lot and then he stopped. ...
A. 20 April 2012: stop going down on him, that will make him think again... (read in full...)
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