He says he wants to please me but never does.
Q. I've been with my bf for two months now and we recently had sex for the first time...I didn't get any pleasure from it...nor do I ever get anything out of any sexual thing we do. I know there is nothing wrong with me, because I am very capable of ...
A. 29 January 2008: Thanks for everything...I'll see how it goes for the next few weeks and if its the same, then that's it...... (read in full...)
He says he wants to please me but never does.
Q. I've been with my bf for two months now and we recently had sex for the first time...I didn't get any pleasure from it...nor do I ever get anything out of any sexual thing we do. I know there is nothing wrong with me, because I am very capable of ...
A. 27 January 2008: He's not a virgin, but he had sex once before he met me, so he doesn't really know his way around just yet. The thing is I try to show him, but I think he just gets frustrated...he's only selfish in bed...not with anything else..I don't ... (read in full...)
We love each other, but are on opposite sides of the earth. Can this love be true, and is this worth pursuing?
Q. I live in the United States and have been in a relationship with a girl from the Philippines. We have known each other for over two years now and have often expressed how much we love and appreciate each other through mainly IM and email, and on a ...
A. 25 January 2008: I kept a relationship for two years with someone who lived on a seperate continent...it was difficult, but so worth while because I never had a connection with someone the way I had with him...If you think you can make it work, then go for it...... (read in full...)
How do I choose between two girls, and how do I let down the one from overseas?
Q. I've been single for a few years. I've never been the type of person that needed to be in a relationship to define me or my happiness. I do find that when I'm in a relationship, though, I like it to be passionate, intense, and full speed. I just ...
A. 3 January 2008: How bout you see how it goes with the girl from the US when she comes to see you in a week. See where your feelings go from there then consider really hard if you want to lose what you have with the girl everseas (the good conversation and ... (read in full...)
I just broke up with him and he hasn't spoken since. Should I text him or what?
Q. If there was anytime i need some help i need it now, i just broke up with my boyfriend and i dont just feel emotionally sick but i also feel physically sick...like i cant breathe and my stomach is in knots. This is the worst feeling in the world and ...
A. 31 December 2007: I was in this exact situation. I didn't talk to him for a long time...and he gave me my space...anyhow with all the space he decided to just move on with life without me in it. If you still want a relationship with him...contact him soon...maybe in ... (read in full...)
He likes me alot more than I like him, should I settle for him?
Q. I have had the ultimate worst luck with men! From being in a serious relationship for 6 years, to being with another guy for 2 years who ended things with me cos his mother controlled his every breath and hated my guts for some reason :o@ Now I have ...
A. 31 December 2007: Never settle...especially with someone who could be your future spouse.... (read in full...)
Help me..does it sound like he really likes me or is he playing/using me once again?
Q. Dear cupid, When I was 18 I really liked this boy a lot and we ended up having sex but then after we did have sex he ignored me and I noticed he flirted with another girl. Then some time after I found out I was pregnant I tried te...
A. 31 December 2007: I agree...it seems that he has matured a lot in the past two years...I would still think about it a while. Do you love him or want to marry him?... (read in full...)
Sex in the laundry room. Your experiences, recommendations?
Q. My lover and I are exploring new places around the house for having sex. We want to try doing it in the laundry room. What is your experience with sex in a laundry room? What sex positions work well in the laundry room? Have you done it on the ...
A. 28 December 2007: This one time I was in the laundry room with my bo and I was sitting on the drying, set on spin dry, and he was standing....it wasn't anything too creative, more of a lack of better places to go, but it was still pretty hott and the shaking of the ... (read in full...)
Why have I not got pregant??
Q. I'm 16 years old, and I have been having sex with my best friend who is 18. Sometimes we use protection (condoms) but most of the time we don't. He doesn't always pull out on time before he ejaculates. I'd like to know WHY i havn't gotten pregnant!? ...
A. 25 December 2007: Maybe it wasn't the right time of the month...? Are you trying to get pregnant?... (read in full...)
We met on holiday and became close friends...but now she is someone else and I can't let go.
Q. Theres this girl that i met on holiday like in 2001 and we have been going to the same place and meting up each year and we are now close friends we also have met up a coupel of times this year (not on holiday ). I happen to have major fellings...
A. 25 December 2007: I met a guy on holiday once and became involved with him deeply...recently he started seeing someone else...it was very difficult and still is....I caught myself crying last night actually. The best advice I can give you is try not to focus on it ... (read in full...)
A Christmas present adequate for a recently started relationship?
Q. So I have been with my bo for about a month now and he is quite the sweetheart. I really want to do something special for him as a Christmas present, but I don't want it to be something too serious, but I also don't want it to be lame or cheesy ...
A. 25 December 2007: Alright we exchanged presents today and he liked his gift, and if he didn't he pretended to...instead of different kinds of baked good I made his favorite kind of cake for him and thank goodness it turned out very tasty...so its all good.... (read in full...)
Me and my cousin are in love and thinking of moving out of state.
Q. I've fallen in love with one of my cousin, and we are thinkin about moving out of state so we can really be together,what should we do?...
A. 23 December 2007: Do you live in the south by any chance?... (read in full...)
How do I get a flat stomach and get rid of the double chin?
Q. Hey I need advice and help. I want a flat stomach how do I go about getting one? I'm not that fat but my stomach is still pretty fat. And I've got a double chin but it only shows when I look down how do I get rid of it? I'm 18 years old and not ...
A. 23 December 2007: I am very much like you weighing around 102 and still had the trouble with the flat stomach. I did have to spend time in physical therapy for my back several months ago, but a lot of the exercises I did were yoga based and it really helped to ... (read in full...)
Why did he hurt me like that?
Q. Why did he hurt me like that? I was in a relationship for 1.5 years with a man who i thought was the love of my life. We met at work, and tried to keep the relationship secret, it didnt last very long. There was a girl at work that i didnt get...
A. 23 December 2007: Any girl he met after you could not compare to the 1.5yr relationship, connection, or bond that yall had together...so naturally if there is no emotional bond, then the only thing left is physical... meaningless words.
I don't think he moved on... (read in full...)
I'm worried she will be scared after our chat about the future.
Q. Me and my girlfriend have only been together a month and yesterday we were talking about out futures, she told me what she wanted out of life and i told her what i wanted, but then we ended up talking about kids..... which i thought was too soon. ...
A. 23 December 2007: Surprisingly enough I am in somewhat the same situation accept I am on the opposite end. I have been with my beau a month and he has started talking about the future...I wasn't scared off by it, but I did have to talk to him later about it and that ... (read in full...)
A Christmas present adequate for a recently started relationship?
Q. So I have been with my bo for about a month now and he is quite the sweetheart. I really want to do something special for him as a Christmas present, but I don't want it to be something too serious, but I also don't want it to be lame or cheesy ...
A. 23 December 2007: So I was still having trouble, but had to go ahead and get something since Christmas is like in 35ish hours or so...its kinda a "goody basket" with a burnt cd of his favorite songs, starbucks gift certificate, a framed picture of us, and a couple of ... (read in full...)
A Christmas present adequate for a recently started relationship?
Q. So I have been with my bo for about a month now and he is quite the sweetheart. I really want to do something special for him as a Christmas present, but I don't want it to be something too serious, but I also don't want it to be lame or cheesy ...
A. 22 December 2007: Thanks so much. A cd is a good idea actually...... (read in full...)
I'd like to date my friend's ex, but my friend is short tempered so how should I approach her about this?
Q. Hey, I really like a guy, and I think that he likes me, although im not sure. I really want to tell him how i feel but unfortunatly he is my best friends ex. They had a messy break up earlier this year. and i know i would have to tell my bes...
A. 22 December 2007: What is more important to you? Your best friend, or the potential romance? Answer this question and then go from there...
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I have never been cheated on and I had imagined we'd be together forever. Should I excuse his infidelity?
Q. So here is my problem, plain and clear: My boyfriend makes no god damn sense. I am 22 years old. I am in University for engineering with a 4.0 GPA. I work out 5-6 days a week and I weigh 125 pounds, I am in top notch shape. I keep every part of ...
A. 21 December 2007: Wow. Honey, I know just what you are going through because my boyfriend of two years did the same to me. I don't think you are vain. I was everything that my bf's slut wasn't. I was the beautiful, intelligent, willing to do anything for him girl...I ... (read in full...)
I spy on my next door neighbour and want to watch her have sex with her boyfriend, is this ok?
Q. Living next door is a beautiful girl my age. We are both 18. We have been friends and have flirted and done other fun things. My bedroom looks over at hers. I have sometimes seen her undressing and doing other sexy things. The other night I saw ...
A. 21 December 2007: Yeh I seriously don't care what you do, but don't tell her after that you watched...even if she did want you to see...do you really see that conversation going well? You said y'all are friends and flirt...just keep doing that and maybe you'll get... (read in full...)
Am I old enough for sex at 14 or should I still be playing children's games?
Q. i am 14 and i am worrying how should a 14year old act? am i old enough for sex or should i still be playing around and having fun like a child. am i old ? or am i worrying over nothing i feel that i am too old for christmas am i ? what...
A. 21 December 2007: No sex...seriously. You might not be a child, but you aren't physically, mentally, or emotionally matured to be having sex. 14 is a hard age because no you're not a child and naturally you don't want to be involved in or even have an interest... (read in full...)
Now she's dating another boy but I suspect she still loves me and only broke up due to insecurities generated by our long distance situation. What to do?
Q. My girl friend and I dated for two years, It was a long distance relationship, but we really had a strong bond and did everything to make it work. One day she told she wasn't really feeling our relationship anymore and i think it was just because ...
A. 21 December 2007: Right now just give her some time and space...let her clear her head to really see what she wants.
It is possible that she likes this guy alot and wants this relationship to work out, or she is trying to get over you (for whatever reason) and she ... (read in full...)
Should I proceed with my potential long distance guy?
Q. Greetings Dear Cupid! I have a very nice person aproaching me on yahoo personals, we live far apart. He's in New Mexico and I am in Wisconsin. I do like all about him...sure I proceed with it? What is he looking to get from me? just a client fo...
A. 21 December 2007: I have been in a long distance relationship before and as romantic and amazing as it was it still had its setbacks. If you are not secure in yourself enough to trust him, then you might not want to pursue this relaionship....also the stress of the ... (read in full...)
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