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Attracted to another member of the staff, who acts friendly, maybe too friendly? Do I follow my instincts?

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Question - (24 October 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 24 October 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I started a new job 2 weeks ago, I found I was instantly attracted to another member of staff, he's been very friendly, just a really nice person. Within the week he began touching me slightly on my shoulder and back when we were talking. Asking sutle questions but just being really friendly. This man is definately inside my head. I can't think of anything else but him, he is much older than me, but god, so sexy. I feel as if I just want to tear his clothes off and have sex with him there and then. I'm finding it so hard as he seems to seek me out every lunch hour. What do I do, do I follow my instincts or just wait and see. C.B

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A female reader, Fade878 Canada +, writes (24 October 2007):

Fade878 agony auntWhat are your instincts? Lust based? Or is it you want companionship,friendship,love?

If this man is single and if you are why not? Unless it's less than honorable wants/desires.

You never know and to pass up on an oppurtunity that could bring happiness...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2007):

Are either of you married? If yes, then walk away. If not, then i would go on instinct and see what happens, what do you have to lose?

take care

xx

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A male reader, Asexy United States +, writes (24 October 2007):

Asexy agony auntWell, it's never a good idea to date someone you work with. If the relationship doesn't go well, then what happens to your job? So I guess that wait and see is your best bet.

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