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*wincess_titi
writes:i've been seeing this guy that i've liked for 3 years for the past six weeks, and when we first kissed i asked where we would go from there and he said we should just go with the flow! and evertime i say i'm going to say something to him as to where i stand i never get the chance!! should i text him to say where do i stand or go with the flow??
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (24 February 2009):
 I guess this will be hard for you seen as you have liked him for the past 3 years so you will be needing to define your relationship more than he needs to right now.
But if you really like him then you need to "go with the flow" as he says otherwise you will risk pushing him away. It will be a very hard thing to do but I'm sure eventually he will realise what a great girl you are and want to make you his girlfriend.
Just think for now that you are seeing someone/dating someone and be happy with that. If he sees you are not pushing him into making you his girlfriend he will respect you more for that and probably make you his girlfriend sooner rather than later!
Good luck!
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reader, jessica04  +, writes (24 February 2009):
 Wow, this is exactly what happened with me and my boyfriend, except that I didn't say anything for 5 months, and the whole time he was thinking we were a couple and I was thinking he only wanted to be casual. I know how frustrating it can be.
I think you just have to decide where you think you are with him. Do you two only go out one or two nights a week and hang out and kiss a little bit? Or are you always together and acting like an old married couple already? There is nothing wrong with 'going with the flow', but if it is beginning to bother you, I would talk to him in person about it and just ask what he thinks your couple status is. At worst, he just wants to date you, but it sounds like he does like you and is having fun.
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