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writes: Hey,I've been with my girlfriend for the past 7 months. We have struggled to keep are relationship alive due to third parties who keep trying to destroy are relationship. Basically, she has met a lad off the net, she told me she might have feelings for him. She has been very un-affecionate right from the start of the relationship, and now im worried she is cheating on me. She has an Internet profile, and has recentely changed her status to ''In a relationship'' - this panics me, because the other lad has done the same, on the same day!! - When it was just myself and her, it said ''single.'' They also mention eachother on there respective profile as ''favourite person''Do you think she could be cheating on me? I would really appreciate soem help!!Regards, unsure from UK Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2008): man i feel so bad for you.heres the thing tho...im in an internet relationship with a woman that i think might be married or somthin like that cause she keeps tellin me shes comin to visit n there allways a excuse.for like the past 5 months ive heard an excuse every other week as to why shes not here.when i ask for her address so i can visit her she gives me the run round n tells me she'll e mail me it in the morning witch never f'ing happens.im thinking shes just using me for the romance shes not getting from her partner... if there is one.see we live in differnt states so i never see her so i dont know whats goin on.so i kinda know were your comin from man.it sucks to be worried bout the one you love not being faithfull, like thinkin of her kissing or haveing sex with another person is unbareable n just makes me sick. like literally vomitingcn crying like a little bitch. id tell you to run far far away but i cant bring myself to do it. so i dont know what to tell ya,cept for the other guy is stuck in the same situation you are in.you can leave her n feel like shit or you can stay with her n feel like shit.were kinda f#cked coming n going partner. sorry
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reader, abbylove +, writes (22 August 2005):
First of all i think you need to sit down with this girl and talk about how you are feeling. I know this may be easier said than done but if you want to move forward and get a soloution to this problem it seem's the only logical way. If what you have suspected all along is reality, you will have no alterative but to offer the girl you love an altermatium. If she love's you half the amout you love her you'll have nothing to worry about. Yes she has admitted to having feeling for this other guy but the question is are these feelings worth losing you over him?
If she makes it clear there is definately more to this "internet" relationship with this other man, then walk away hun. She won't even be worth your time or emotions.
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reader, becky05 +, writes (8 August 2005):
Well, it certainly sounds like it. You will have to come right out and ask her. She has already said she may have feelings for this internet man and that is not acceptable if she is in a relationship with you.
Tell her that all contact with this fellow must stop or you will end the relationship.
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reader, Anastasia  +, writes (6 August 2005):
 As bad as this may sound sweetie...a blimp flying in the sky could not be any clearer. I know you probably like this girl alot and she means alot to you, but you need to take care of yourself and your heart okay. If you wish...ask her what is the deal with net boy..if not..I suggest you get out of that asap. Personally I feel...you should not even ask any questions....just get out of there. I am sure you deserve better than that anyday.
Ana
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reader, harshbutfair  +, writes (5 August 2005):
 I am struggling to see even the tiniest reason you would want to be with this girl. I suggest you ditch her before she makes a total fool of you. These kind of chicks are all over the net. So, switch off the Interweb. Go date real girls.
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