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writes: I was over at my girlfriend's house the other day and picked up her cellphone bill to look at it ... to see how much she was accruing in charges (being nosey). With that, I noticed that she was calling some numbers at 3-4am in the morning. The calls weren't too frequent. But, a few times during the month (in the bill), it was 3-4 times in a few days. And, 1-2 of those times, it would be longer than a few mins. I know those numbers don't belong to any of her current friends (all the numbers are out of state) ... so, should I be worried? On the bill, I see that sometimes she calls those numbers after she's called me (hence the 3-4am calls) .. or vice versa, called those numbers and then called me ... we usually talk long periods later in the night (after midnight) ...
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reader, heartxbrokenxgurl  +, writes (13 January 2007):
 ok if i was u i would text mesage him acting like ur gurlfriend say something she would say to him maybe then see wut he says back n if its lovey mushy then i would be worried she could be cheatin or something like that cuz talkin to him at 3 or 4 in the mornin is kind of wierd cuz if she was into him she prob would talk to him when ur asleep at ur house so she isnt talkin to u when she is on the phone with him so theres no intereptions in the call it could be a sign of cheatin hope this helps and good luck
?jenna date master n heartxbrokenxgurl
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reader, eddie  +, writes (13 January 2007):
 Call the number and see who it is. If you already know it's a guy, ask her what's up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2007): Well, here's the followup to it. I just spoke to her. Asked who the guy that sent the text messages was. And, she said it was a friend she's known for a few years. Though, she did try to put it like ... "haven't spoken to him for a few months". Which goes contrary to the calls on the phone statement. But, anyway, I guess she was just trying to reassure me by saying that (?) ... I'm not going to bring up that I saw her phone statement.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2007): No, her picking up my calls has nothing to do with it. She always picks up my calls even if she's on the phone. So, I can't go by that line of reasoning for how I found out they talk late at night. I may go about telling her that I read her text messages from him and I'm wondering who he is. Because I did read her text messages ....
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reader, cd206  +, writes (13 January 2007):
 I think that if you ask your girlfriend about this then she'll feel you've betrayed her trust, and in some way she'd be right to feel that. However it seems you do need answers so why not tell her after one of your late night phone calls that you'd called her back and she was engaged and you're just calling to check everything is ok because most people don't talk on the phone at that time. See what she says. You never know, there might be a really innocent explanation!! Hope this helps.
CD
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2007): Well, the thing is, I know it's a guy. She has his number stored in her contacts list. She also received a bunch of text messages from him. The guy has referred to her in his text messages as "lady friend". Actual friends or relatives wouldn't refer to someone as that ...
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reader, Big boy +, writes (13 January 2007):
 Well if you’re that worried, get the number and call it your self under a private number, may be once or twice, if it’s a girl feel free, and if it’s a guy, just play it cool. Try and find out if she has any distance friend or relation before jumping into conclusion, I would not worry to much if I where you.
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