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writes:Argh!!!I havent a clue how things got too big so soon!I went out for a drink with a few mates from work.There was this lad amongst them, I had noticed him as he works on the same floor.I am rather loud and out going especially if I am off ballnce, nervous or feeling a bit shy (strange I konw)So one of thr first things I said to him was "can i sit on your knee nd call you daddy" now I havent really a clue what it means any way (so any help there would be greatfully recieved) well as the night progressed we discovered we have a love for the same things.I have 350 books mostly rpg spin offs, i used to play rpgs, have a love of sci fi in short I am a total geek lol we got on very well and he txted me at the end of the night.we have shared a few txts, 2 phone calls and having "met" on the thurs arranged to meet after work on sat so we could get to know each other a bit better.no space of time at all.and yet it all seems to have been blown out of all proportion.Hes called it off saying that hes got something to deal with on several levels, its not you!should I take it a face value?I have left the ball in his court with a txt saying that if he wants to still chat just to txt.Have I done right?Why cant I just meet some one that doesnt build my hopes then dash them on the rocks?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell it was our first day back at work together, we chatted and went for a drink, ended up at mine.
Think hes got what he wanted now hes going to bin me.
God I am so stupid!
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reader, Angelina : ) +, writes (14 January 2007):
 Relax a little. It's fine. If he likes you, he likes you, and if he doesn't, he doesn't. However it turns out, you haven't lost anything. See how it goes. Men can smell desparation and that is the one thing everybody hates. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you :)
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reader, cd206 +, writes (13 January 2007):
 It really is his problem if he's backing out, honestly.
I think what you texted him was really great, telling him that if he wants to keep chatting you're still there. It shows you're still interested so that if his problems sort themselves out he can find his way back to you.
If, on the other hand, his problems are a way of telling you he doesn't want to be with you he's a spineless freak who doesn't deserve your tears. However, for now, just hold off and give him the benefit of the doubt. Maybe he really does have something else he needs to deal with right now.
Good luck!
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