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writes: Hello, I am a high school student and I have a crush on my teacher. I don't know if he likes me or not. We are good friends and he helps me a lot. He is always by my side when I am nervous. He shows up a lot in front of me even if he doesn't suppose to. Once, he was in my math classroom after school, he walked into the room and stand there, I wasn't there at first, after I went into the room, my math teacher follows. He looked at me and said Hi. He didn't do anything, after a while, my math teacher asked him: You came here for a reason right? He said no, just hang around. I left the room, and he left the room with me. He's always finding ways to talk to me, but I felt shy to talk to him. I was always trying to ignore talking to him face to face. Instead, I always email him with my questions in class and he sometimes reply back. He prefer to talk to me face to face about all my questions. We traded personal email address and cellphone numbers. He likes to help me a lot, even outside of school. Last time, we had a school trip. He got real mad at me because I helped another teacher while they were in a competition. But on our way back, he sit next to me, and I slept on my way home. I lay on his arm and the other students making jokes about us. When I woke up he told me that they took a picture when I was asleep. He told me not to worry because it'll be a cute picture. I am not in his class this semester, but whenever I had question I will go back to him. One afternoon in his classroom, (only me and him) he was helping me with some school project, a friend of mine walked in, she saw his hands are around my chair. She turned red and went away. We temps to wear the same color of clothes when he dress down. He likes to talk to me about his personal schedules. He likes to ask me to go to his office and he likes to lock me in his classroom alone when I needed help at lunch time. I don't know if he's just like an older brother to me or does he likes me. I like him a lot, I know it's sort of impossible but sometimes I wanted to tell him because I don't want to be regret years later. What can I do? Besides, he's a new teacher. Very young and he has a very bright future. I am just nothing comparing to him. I am looking foward to see your advice. Thank you for your time and patience!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2007): It seems he has feelings for you to but i could be wrong. I wouldnt tell him how you feel it is against the law for him to do anything and he could end up in jail, he will loose his job and maybe even his career. Telling him could also loose the great friendship you to seem to have x good luck x
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reader, XxXsexymozzaXxX +, writes (9 November 2005):
hey
wow your in a bit of a muddle aint ya i have had teachers do that to me as well dont you worrie about it do what you feel i personaly by you writing i would feel a bit scared i know he is your teacher but you said that he locks you in the classroom have you ever wondered why he does that i dont want to imagin i think you should tell him cuz is he really likes you then he will say the same tell him you like him and see what his reactions are if his face drops he aint intrested if he gives a lil smile then you know its true and you are to speak to him props and sort somehing out between each other
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2005): The same kind of thing happened at my school, with a senior and the computer teacher. One day, one of my friends walked in on them making out and pretty soon the whole school knew about it. he ended up losing his job and she ended up loosing all her scholarships. Don't do anything that you'll regret later on in life, and no guy is worth ruining your future. Especially when he is way older then you.
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reader, Drlove +, writes (8 July 2005):
I agree with Becky 100% this is creepy as hell. don't flirt with this guy, or have any secret anything hell if I were you I would report him.this is DEFINITELY NOT OK!
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reader, Helen05 +, writes (3 July 2005):
HAve you ever thought that this man is just genuinley concerned about you? When we feel something for someone we can often misinterpret kindness and concern for sexual attraction. I can't deny he wants to be your friend or is interested in your welfare, but it could be in a big brotherly way.
If he genuinley does love you, he will wait for you to finish school and will not do anything that makes you uncomfortable. For now i would leave off the personal calls and secret meetings. If it's meant to be, it will be when it is not illegal for it to be so!
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reader, becky05 +, writes (3 July 2005):
My god! Keep away from this man at all costs. Dont text, phone or email him again. No teacher in their right mind would have a relationship with a student and if they did, they would get in serious trouble with the authorities as this is against the law. This man sounds like a creep. Please, please stay away from him!!!
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reader, teacher_luv +, writes (3 July 2005):
If you really have feelings for this teacher, then try ways to find out if he really loves you, but don't ask directly unless you are reaalllyyy sure, or else he may be intimidated. Talk to him often and see if there are clues pointing to the fact that he loves you. If there are then tell him (slowly) that you have feelings for him as well. Good luck!
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