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writes:hey everyone i am in a very weird situation. there is two things i need help with. one has to do with my step sister. she is growing up and get hotter everytime i see her she is 14 and i am 16. sometimes i catch her looking at me before i start to change when im in a towel and shes always touching me and stuff. it is really weird but at the same time i would mind doing something about it. if you have anything you think i should do help me out. the other thing is that my stepsisters friends are always at our house and when they come over all they do is try to flirt with me. some of them look good for 14 i just dont know what i should do. should i act on them flirting and flirt back and do stuff with them or what?
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reader, girlwiththeglasses  +, writes (10 February 2010):
Are you joking?? Who asks this question? Dude, you don't flirt with your step-sister! I can understand thinking she's fine or whatever, but come on. There's so many other girls and if you're going to flirt with them atleast make sure you aren't related by blood... This is just laziness. Secondly,for god sakes, don't leave it unnoticed, tell her how weird it is, who knows, maybe it's all in your head and she isn't flirting with you. Her friends? I'm not sure, just check with her if it's okay to go out with one of them, but don't be all serious about them andthen dump them the next day, that could cause a rift between everyone.
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reader, good soul  +, writes (13 November 2009):
 yeah pal just flirt back. but just with the friends. not with your sister man !
just think if something happens between you and ur parents come to know, you are in big trouble.
and be careful with the towel :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2009): Yes, I would definitely flirt back with them, and if they want to do stuff with you, why not do it? Especially if they are hot and good-looking. Your step-sister is not related to you by blood, so it's just like you were living with any other girl that you're not related to. It would not be incest, so feel free to do whatever you want with her and her friends. It sounds like you could have some hot fun with them! Just be sure that if you have sex with any of them, use a condom, and maybe see if they can get on the birth control pill.
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reader, Love is all you need  +, writes (3 August 2009):
 yeah you can flirt back its only harmless flirting they won't take it seiously, they'll be thinking ' what is the chance that he would fancy me anyway'and forgt about it. hey maybe in the future you'll go out with one of them....that does happen! . As for your sister she's probably overwelmed that she has a boy buffet right in front of her and not just at school. But she won't do anything bout it she'll think its weird and sick as well.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (3 August 2009):
Her friends are always going to flirt with you. You are her big brother so you are
a) an older boy
b) safe as they know you are a nice guy
c) it's fun to tease you
All my friends and I always flirted with eachother's big brothers. It was fun and safe and silly.
Ignore it if you can. Flirt back if you want, but I wouldn't take it seriously.
As for your step sister, yes she is curious because she's getting old enough to think about boys in that way. But that doesn't mean it's a good idea to try anything. You have to live with her AND her parents.
It's never a good idea to go out with someone you WORK with, let alone live with, let alone someone who is supposed to be family.
This problem is getting really common now families are divorcing and remarrying.
Talk to your mum or dad about it if you can. They will understand what it's like for you and will help remind you that she may not be your blood sister, but she's still your family.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Lauraa. +, writes (3 August 2009):
Helloo. :)
I'm 14 too, and my boyfriend happens to be 16.
So I can't say anything about the age gap, It's not even that big tbh.
But, your step sister flirting with you, girls are very strange LOL, and it might not nesscarily be flirting, latley I realised apprantley I flirt with quite a few boys, when I dont even realise it, so maybe she might not intend to flirt with you?
And her friends, well that is a very common situation, and I wouldnt really recomend flirting with them loads, but just be yourself, and have fun, smile at them, chat with them and stuff, keep flirting to a minimum. And you never know one might be totally in love with you lool.
If that helped at all? lool
xx
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