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writes:I’m a gay man. My boyfriend went out with his best friend in April. His best friend brought along her EX boyfriend. They went to a straight strip club and then to the bar after words. When they got into the car to go home, his best friend and her ex were getting freaky in the back seat. His best friends EX asked him if he wanted to taste his "PRIVATE". My boyfriend put his mouth on it and then came to his senses and pulled away. When he told me I cried and in the end I forgave him. He promised that he wasn't going to hang out with her because every time she's around he becomes some one else. Long story short, its been almost 3 months and we argue all the time because he wants to hang out with her and I don’t want him too because she is not only a drunk, but all she loves to do is go to clubs and bars and sleep around with people. He thinks im selfish, but I tell him that a real friend wouldn’t put him in that type of scenario nor would they let anything like that happen. This issue is so bad, at times i want to break this relationship, but i cant. I love him too much.My question is, am I wrong for wanting him to break off his friendship with her?
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (10 July 2007):
 I'm with rythmandblues2.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2007): No, but you and your boyfriend may have differing values, after all he seems to be living his and so do you....this is the issue, where do you stand on morals and committment to your relationship?
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