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writes:Right, so this lad I've been asking questions about [http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-lied-to-him-about-an-abortion-he.html] I went to a party with him the other day and we kissed again for ages, thing is I was really drunk, but he wasn't. I just felt so safe with him, we were in my mates hot tub and he had his arms around me and we were just looking at the stars and then he just gently kissed me. I really really like this guy. All my mates are now telling me that he does feel the same way, even my lad mates who are very close to him are saying it. Thing is I know he hasn't said anything to them and he's a very hard person to read. I don't want to get my hopes up but its too late, I already have now. Just any advice on what might be going on in his head or why hes been doing this to me would be great.Thanks a lot.Kat xx
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (10 July 2007):
 In the other post, you mentioned he doesn't love you. Well, I think this very much tells you what to do.
I don't like the fact that he kissed you when YOU were drunk. I can't avoid feeling he took advantage of you. You should be careful about your drinking, too.
I cannot really tell what's going on in his head, but I do know that, by now, he should have done much better than simply kissing you when you were drunk. I'm afraid he's not serious about you.
In the other post, you mentioned you were cutting yourself. Again, I recommend you DON'T do this. I hope you aren't doing it anymore.
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