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I REALLY want to go with him to the prom!

Q.   So I had this boyfriend in 8th grade named Darell but I broke up with him after a few weeks because either I got scared or I just realized I didn't like him like that. I don't know .. it was something stupid. We were like 12 after all. Anyway, I...

A.   23 March 2009: ahh so nerve wracking lol... (read in full...)

Where can we doit?

Q.   This is a pretty weird situation I guess, well getting too it, i've got a boyfriend, been with him a while, had sex 3 times over a weekend away, now we're kinda stuck for where to have sex, and we're going to go to shit if we don't keep the sex life ...

A.   7 March 2009: the car lol.... (read in full...)

How can I stop getting turned on by naked men?

Q.   im in high school and im not bisexual but i get turned on when i see a naked men. i have swimming classes and most of the guys get naked in the locker room and i wanted to know if any one knows a way that can stop me from getting turned on? ...

A.   7 March 2009: masturbate before you get to class lol that's all i can really think of... (read in full...)

He wants me to smoke weed with him before we have sex... what should I do?

Q.   My boyfriend wants to have sex with me but he also wants me to smoke WEED with him before we do it so I can get high. I don't know if I should because I'm worried that if he gets high he'll forget to put a condom on and I might get pregnent. What ...

A.   7 March 2009: well marijuana in general is illegal but also having sex while intoxicated is also illegal. the law states under the influence you can't consent to sex. but i do admit i've done it after smoking and it was great so i think your boyfriend has good ... (read in full...)

Unhappy unskinny teen

Q.   Hey, I'm 15 and I live in New York City. I've never been skinny. I'm a size 6. I've never understood: I have a small chest, big hips, not flat stomach, huge thighs, bad skin, frizzy/ curly hair. I just don't understand! I feel like I lucked out on a...

A.   7 March 2009: woah girl. 6 is small. i'm a 9 and i love the body i'm in. embrace your beauty and others will too. plus i had big frizzy hair but some product and a straightener cured that. i have terrible skin too but i used make up. guys still tend to find me ... (read in full...)

I like two guys..they are best friends!

Q.   Okay so I'll use fake names. The first boy is David who I went out with in Middle School but we broke up over something dumb. I don't know .. we were young and stupid. But we stayed really tight friends then in Sophomore year of high school I saw ...

A.   6 March 2009: i could do that but i risk hurting david and ahh i value our friendship so much but i do like him and i feel our relationship would be a lot healthier than if i went out with connor. and gosh idk what to do lol and don't cry over boys girl! it... (read in full...)

I always go for guys that are 5 to 10 years older than me!

Q.   I'm a teenager, and it seems like the only males i'm attracted to, is one that are either 5-10 years older than me, or men that are married. Of course i wont risk acting on my feelings, but i can't seem to be attracted to guys my age. They are so ...

A.   16 November 2008: omg! i'm the same way. i'm 17 and i like guys my age but they are so annoying and i find that i'm only truly attracted to guys in their 20s but i'd never pursue them and put that unfair pressure to break the law on them lol. but wait until you're 18 ... (read in full...)

My penis size worries me

Q.   I am 22yrs old n a virgin. My penis is just 4.5 inches long. This worries me very much. Please honestly tel me if i would be able to satisfy a girl sexually with my penis? Is there anything i can do to increase its size? Is it normal? i masturba...

A.   16 November 2008: 4 and a half is actually bigger than the average size which is like 3 or 3.5 or something. and trust me some women are scared of huge penises lmfao and plus having a large one doesn't automatically make you better in bed by default so i say work ... (read in full...)

The kids at school tease me about my virginity and sex...Whatcan I do?

Q.   Dear Cupid the year 9s at my school keep on asking whether i'm a virgin or not. I reply I am and they start laughing. I've never even kissed a boy or had a proper relationship before; and I don't particurlly want to get teased about it... a...

A.   15 November 2008: wow that's sad. i'm a senior in high school and a lot of people are still virgins. a lot of people lie that they aren't just to seem 'cool'. but don't worry honey you're not alone and don't be ashamed it's not a bad thing. just don't let yourself be ... (read in full...)

Anyone know about any home remedy for breast enlargement?

Q.   best home remedy for breast enlargement.i m 19 years old.i really feel shy in wearing tops....

A.   15 November 2008: you don't need big breasts to be beautiful. there are tons of gorgeous flat chested women. look at keira knightly or kate bosworth. just keep believing that you are beautiful and others will believe it too. but if you must try padded push up bras.... (read in full...)

My date knows rasist jokes but claims he is not racist. Should I broach the subject to him to understand his thinking?

Q.   I think my new guy's a racist. He says jokes that I don't like. I told him this but he keeps saying them. Maybe he just says them because he was raised in well, let's just say not my area of town and is ignorant of other peoples cultures. Should I ...

A.   15 November 2008: well most racist people won't admit they are racist i don't think. so if you asked then he probably wouldn't tell you. but some people are just conditioned to say racial things but that doesn't mean they mean it. i'm also biracial and it's ... (read in full...)

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