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I'm currently 19 and in a relationship with someone whom I love very much. It's been very hard for me to put up with it but I've been doing so for a year.

Porn, lies, drugs, stealing

Q.   What should I do? What would you do if you were in my situation? First of all, please do not answer this in a rude way or say "Porn is natural for a male." My boyfriend and I have been having some problems lately and I've been getting very sus...

A.   18 March 2009: Oh wow, I'm really sorry. That's horrible, especially since you have a daughter, and the fact the he swore on her life and continued to due so is extremely bad. I'm very sorry for the situation you are in, just think about what's best for you and ... (read in full...)

Porn, lies, drugs, stealing

Q.   What should I do? What would you do if you were in my situation? First of all, please do not answer this in a rude way or say "Porn is natural for a male." My boyfriend and I have been having some problems lately and I've been getting very sus...

A.   10 March 2009: thank you for your answers,really. i've been trying to help him through it and he's getting a bit better but still doesn't seem to know how to open up. he thinks i'll judge him and think bad of him like everyone else. i've been finding the patience ... (read in full...)

LDR & I feel like my b/f ignores me!

Q.   Me and my bf have a long distance r/ship and I honestly feel like ending it. I constantly feel like I'm not good enough for him, that maybe he doesnt feel the same way for me and maybe hes interesting in someone else. Since its a logn distance r/...

A.   11 February 2009: Talk to him about it. I'm sorry to say but long distance is very hard, I had a boyfriend that did that to me once it turned out he was seeing another girl in real life. I'm not saying that's what he's doing but you may want to ask him about it and ... (read in full...)

Why does his penis slip out?

Q.   i lost my virginity a year ago and everytime me and my boyfriend have sex his penis slips out half way through. is this my fault? can anyone explain why this happens?...

A.   10 February 2009: I honestly doubt that it is your fault. Or his for that matter. But like the person who commented before me I have to ask. Is he able to keep an erection?... (read in full...)

Depression over girlfriend

Q.   My girlfriend and I were going out for about 4 months when all of the sudden she said she didn't feel the same about me anymore. Everything was going good too; we would say I love you and tell each other how cute we were etc., but then she stopped ...

A.   8 February 2009: I'm sorry to say this but did you ever think she was a bit naive and didn't realize she had someone that truly cared about her? Or that she was scared? Try going out and having some fun. Do some things that you like that you haven't done in awhile ... (read in full...)

I hate porn....hate it!

Q.   Ok, so i have been with my bf who i love and who loves me back a lot for a about 1 1/2 years. Things are great btwn us...we live together, have a great sex life, went and constantly go thru the good, the bad, the really bad, etc. but he watches ...

A.   8 February 2009: I have the same problem currently. It seems like my boyfriend just cannot step up and admit his addiction to porn. And, I have the same feelings as you. I feel like he's cheating because he's doing sexual acts and thinking about other women while ... (read in full...)

My ex and I are in love but in different relationship, what do we do?

Q.   ok I have a huge problem. I'm still in love with my ex and he says he's still in love with me too but we are both in different relationships. My boyfriend is amazing but I miss my ex so much and I don't know how to get over him. Would it be easier ...

A.   8 February 2009: I had that problem for awhile. I still care about my ex-boyfriend, honestly but I don't love him. My current boyfriend told me something that helped me. He told me that we had broken up for a reason. And, I know that's not what you want to here. ... (read in full...)

How can I feel happier about myself and how to approach a girl?

Q.   im a total outcast in school i only talk to people who i knew for a long time and boys thats it! i thought about suicide once but im way past that now. i feel that if i talk to a girl they would reject me, throw a insult, or a long moment of ...

A.   8 February 2009: I use to be the same way, I was very shy. I was also insecure, I still am. The only way you'll get over you're fear of rejection is by trying. Everything takes practice. Just be yourself, if they can't accept you for who you are then that person ... (read in full...)

He loved giving me pleasure but now he ignores me, any ideas?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have now been together for a year and half. He was a virgin whenever we first got together. At first, he loved giving me oral sex and always tried to last and please me first. Lately, he never wants to do anything sexual unless I ...

A.   8 February 2009: I've talked to him and asked him about counseling, we've tried it. And, the person we talked to was also an old buddy of his. His friend agreed with me and he didn't like it. I've talked to him and asked him how he would like it if I did it to him. ... (read in full...)

He loved giving me pleasure but now he ignores me, any ideas?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have now been together for a year and half. He was a virgin whenever we first got together. At first, he loved giving me oral sex and always tried to last and please me first. Lately, he never wants to do anything sexual unless I ...

A.   8 February 2009: I love it but I always end up being frusterated. I usually end up crying because he ignores me afterwards. He thinks I shouldn't "pleasure" myself because he doesn't get to watch porn. I have talked to him about it, he just kind of shrugs and puts ... (read in full...)

My penis bends a little to the left. Do girls care about this?

Q.   Well, this is a bit embarrassing and I hate to ask it but it's always been something in the back of my mind. I am fairly happy with my penis, it's nothing special but it's at a comfortable size and what not. The only problem is is that it curves ...

A.   6 February 2009: My boyfriend's penis bends to left the left, I'm not sure why. It doesn't bother me, sometimes I like it. -Good Luck.... (read in full...)

Does penis size play into women's fantasies?

Q.   Ok, another penis size question, I know, but bear with me ! Ok I guess my question is: does the idea or sight of a substantially larger than average penis, turn most women on? Is a big one arousing? More esthetically pleasing. More likely to promp...

A.   6 February 2009: My boyfriend is 8.5 Inches in length and quite wide. Yes, it does turn me on very much so. And, yes it does rouse a lot of fantasies whenever he isn't here with me. -Good Luck.... (read in full...)

What is the average sized penis for a guy?

Q.   hi, im 15. my gfs 17. i was talking to her about penis size, and started going thru them and what she though eg(1 inch? 2 inch? 3INch?), well i said my penis size and she laughed at it, im 4 inch 5. she laughed at all other sizes up to 4.5 an sed 5 ...

A.   6 February 2009: Nothing to worry about, I'm sure you'll grow a bit more. Though, she shouldn't laugh, maybe you should talk it over with her and tell her how you feel. -Good Luck.... (read in full...)

Women only, penis question! Would you be ok with 3 inches?

Q.   this is a short and simple question, can a 3 inch penis give a girl a gspot orgasm? and has anyone had sex wit a penis so small? how does it feel?...

A.   6 February 2009: My ex was 3'1/2 Inches. I never had an orgasm, he couldn't hit my g-spot. But you don't neccessarily have to please her with your penis. My ex always finished me off with his fingers. It never bothered me. -Good Luck.... (read in full...)

My penis size worries me

Q.   I am 22yrs old n a virgin. My penis is just 4.5 inches long. This worries me very much. Please honestly tel me if i would be able to satisfy a girl sexually with my penis? Is there anything i can do to increase its size? Is it normal? i masturba...

A.   6 February 2009: It depends on the girl. My ex was about that size and it never bothered me, especially since I loved him. Don't worry. And, masturbating has nothing to do with your size. -Good Luck. ... (read in full...)

Can I get my penis straightened?

Q.   Dear All, I am 27 Yrs Male Unmarried.I have a Bent Penis ( Penis facing towards ground ) . Till now i have been wit my GF but havent had real intercourse ...we were happy with foreplay and toung tricks. But now we are planing for a real sex .... ...

A.   6 February 2009: My boyfriend and I have been having sex for about a year and a half. His penis is also bent, but to the left. I don't know if she'll care, but it may hurt her. Try it out and see. If it does hurt her, see a doctor. -Good Luck. =)... (read in full...)

How to handle a penis!!!??

Q.   Hi, I could really do with some help. Any answers will be much appreciated. Well I've had quite a few sexual partners but not very confident in bed. Basically I don't have a clue what to do. For example before sex when me and my fella are just ...

A.   6 February 2009: Really get into it, let yourself go. Don't think about it, be spontaneous, do what feels right. Try different techniques, if you don't want to ask, then watch his reactions to everything. -Good Luck. =)... (read in full...)

My penis is aroused every morning, is that normal?

Q.   Hi. I am 22 year old guy. Every morning when i wake up my penis is erected and really hard. I am a virgin and i masturbate quite often. (daily or once every two days). I masturbate to pornography. I think i dream too much about the pornography,...

A.   6 February 2009: It's normal, don't worry. =)... (read in full...)

Why can't men stay sweet and charming like they always are in the beginning of a relationship?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year. I'm 19 and he is 27. I know there is quite and age difference but when we met i just fell in love with who he was. Sometimes he acts like he's 12 though. He's very stubborn and can't ever admit to ...

A.   6 February 2009:  I agree with Jay. My relationship was about the same, he was sweet and always there for me. He would talk to me and always care. But, now he's changed alot, he ignores me, never cares, never says sweet things. He started to show his true colors, ... (read in full...)

What's going on with my boyfriend?

Q.   Hmm, well basically, my boyfriend of just over a year has been acting funny lately. He's always on the computer, and closes MSN conversations when I go over to talk to him. Curious as to his odd behaviour, one day I decided to take a look at one of ...

A.   6 February 2009: I'd say he's talking to other girls, flirting. Just confront him, don't be hateful or rude, just tell him that you want the truth. =) -Good Luck.... (read in full...)

Is my penis normal? And are my friends really as big as they say?

Q.   I'm 16 and have around a 3" penis when erect, is this normal? Also my "friends" say their like 6+ can this be true or are they just trying to show off?...

A.   6 February 2009: I really don't know, one of my ex's was around 3' 1/2 Inches whenever he was 17. My current boyfriend is 8' 1/2 Inches. I'm not really sure, you may want to get it checked out if you're that worried about it. But, really if you find someone who ... (read in full...)

How many sleeping partner have you had

Q.   Hi im doing a survey about how many sleeping partners (vaginal or anal) you or anyone you know, GF/BF etc, has had? Plz also state how sure you are of yours and your partners number! Plz be honest as there's no need to lie because you can just put...

A.   6 February 2009:  I have had sex with two men, vaginal. I'm 19, and from America. My boyfriend has only had sex with one person(me), vaginal. He's 18, and from America.... (read in full...)

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