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28 From Belfast

Partnered with my husband for 2 years!! together 9!

hoping to help all you guys and gals out there!!

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Do I keep it to myself or tell my sister? My sister's husband of nine years told me he is having an affair

Q.   Yesterday was the worst day of my life. My sister's husband of nine years told me he is having an affair,he trusted me enough to tell me, but I feel like I'm betraying my sister. Please help me what should I do????? My sister also has a life treat...

A.   29 September 2012: Oh hun, this sounds awful. Personally i think you need to speak with him again, let him know your not happy with the situation that HE has put you in. Your sister however is blood, and family is so important. When it all comes out, and she finds ... (read in full...)

Relationships between aunts and nephews

Q.   just to understand, why does, most of the time, aunt-nephew relationship gets into sex flavor. i have had experiences. many friends of mine told me they too similar kind of experiences. i think most guys goes thru this session. can people in here ...

A.   11 December 2009: totally agre Kc 100! i have never heard of this!! unless off course we live dull live kc 100 lol! x... (read in full...)

I've lost all trust in him. What do I do?

Q.   I am 26 and have just married the love of my life in May. It has not been a happy marraige. I've lost all trust in him. Just before we got married, I took a loan to buy a car, a month later I find out, that he took the money from my account....

A.   11 December 2009: Megane hun this sounds awful...Firstly you need to get some space..you need to get your head clear and understand a few things.. yes you married this man who you love, but he married the woman he loved...there should be no lying...... (read in full...)

I don't know if I can face sex yet

Q.   MOD NOTE: Age states 13, but poster stated he is 15. Okay, theres this guy...lets call him Tom. Tom and I have been talking online for about two months, recently we admitted we have feelings for each other. Now, he is 18 and I'm 15, we are plann...

A.   11 December 2009: satin desire - first you are way out of line there....you obviously didnt read what our friend in need wrote!! the guy in question is 18, and our friend will be 16!! how is he " liking younger boys" pothetic really, and comming from a girl who isnt ... (read in full...)

Gay partner lying again... another man in my horizon?

Q.   Ok here goes.. i have been in a relationship with my Partner of 7 years, and we have booked our civil partnership for next summer! We both are a good match and people love seeing us together, especially our family. Throughout our years together o...

A.   8 December 2009: well people thinks grass is always greener and it never is....there is no way im throwing away 7 years with my one true love! thanks for you comments girls, all is great and back on track, no more messing around! xxxxx... (read in full...)

Why is he sleeping with me when he has a girlfriend?

Q.   Hay i need help!! Here is the Story. I am gay and this lad is straight, His name is Lloyd. I know him from school we used to hang out after school get drunk on a Friday night and stuff. Then one night he courts me and this over straight lad doing ...

A.   2 February 2009: awk pet....listen be strong!!! your the man in this, why?? because your confidient and happy with who you are!! lloyd obviously is in denial because he is gay...his girlfriend will realise this too!! and being in the marines?? the showers must be ... (read in full...)

Should I accept my male friend (I'm bi) or live a lie with my fiancee?

Q.   I am a 26 year old bi male, who has been in love with one of my male friends for 5 years. I was going to tell him a few times but I always thought he was straight. He has now told me that he fancies me and wants us to be together. I would have ...

A.   2 February 2009: follow your heart, best advice you can get i think!! xxxxx... (read in full...)

What does sperm taste like to men?

Q.   My Gf wants Me to lick my *** off of her boobs but I don't know how it tastes. What does sperm taste like to men?...

A.   13 November 2008: As a gay man I can tell you it's Not bad....! most people don't like it, but some do!! It keeps your hair conditioned!!! and helps your eyes!! so wikipedia says anyway!!! watch that x tube, people do self facials on it!! looks minging but it will ... (read in full...)

My penis size worries me

Q.   I am 22yrs old n a virgin. My penis is just 4.5 inches long. This worries me very much. Please honestly tel me if i would be able to satisfy a girl sexually with my penis? Is there anything i can do to increase its size? Is it normal? i masturba...

A.   13 November 2008: Hello friend... Penis size! This is something most men think about unless your hung like a donkey (which then is bad too ) At the end of the day us men have to make do with what we have got..if you look online the average penis is 4.5 inches t... (read in full...)

I love my wife... but I am having this battle of wanting to be with men.

Q.   I love my wife. I really do! But I am having this battle of wanting to be with men. I am so natural with men, whether it be sex or just sitting in a room with them. I don't know what to do. My wife knows I have been with men. I think I am Gay and I ...

A.   12 November 2008: Oooh sounds tricky!! Listen if you have these strong desires for men you need to find out exactly what it is you want... Would you not chat with here and see if a threesome with another male might please/arouse the both of you? If your wife knew you ... (read in full...)

How do I get him back, and help him accept that he is gay?

Q.   I am a 46 year old male. A friend and i he is 27 were together for a year and a half. We came back home to our hometowns for a while and he freaked out that people thought he was gay. He is now dateing a women who is the same age as me, he use to ...

A.   12 November 2008: Awk chum dosnt sound great,i agree with the other agony aunt, counseling would be best..he needs to understand and come to terms with what he really wants... Also if he is now drinking more this means hes using this as another means of blocking his ... (read in full...)

I had to kick my boyfriend out, he's still seeing the guy he'd been cheating on with me!

Q.   How do you get over a bad breakup? Tonight I had to kick my boyfriend out after I found out he is still seeing the guy he'd been cheating on with me, see http://www.dearc...

A.   23 April 2008: Sorry to hear whats happened!! i would watch loads of sex and the city....think of all the bad things he done, not the good, and hit the town with some best friends....inside you will still ache, but remember he was the one that lost what was best... (read in full...)

Gay feelings but I am straight?

Q.   im a boy and im straight.Im addicted to mustarbating and i have developed that i lost interest in girl i always want to have sex with other boys.IS THIS NORMAL?...

A.   23 April 2008: Hello Friend.. Well i can only give you my honest opinion, if you masturbate and think about sexually engaging with men, then your either gay or bi-sexual, bi-sexual in the way that you still want to possibly date women ( have sex with ) but if w... (read in full...)

I feel guilty after a drunken night! Help me.

Q.   okay so here goes the story....i met my partner 7 years ago and we were fantastic, we love eachother so much! but from i have been with him, he has always texted "this friend" he met on the internet ( who happens to live ten minutes away) they met ...

A.   23 April 2008: well guys, after four months everything has been spoke about and better than ever...the sex still isnt up to scratch, but were looking up and even buying a house together...were really happy, thanks for the support guys..xxx... (read in full...)

Is he or is he not...going to strip clubs? Should I ask him...again?

Q.   I have recently found messages on my boyfriend's friend's pages of whom he is very close with and hangs out with when he is not with me. the messages were from girls asking them if they wanted to go to strip-clubs with them for a night out. i aske...

A.   3 January 2008: Hello, Well to be honest all you can do is trust him, what normally works is this..... When its next brought up say to him, "im so glad we are honest with eachother about everything, cause i know you wouldnt lie to me..." then say something li... (read in full...)

I'm not gay, I have a girlfriend, but I'm turned on by gay men, why is that?

Q.   I am a 14 year old boy and I am "turned on by gay things". I dont want to be gay I have had a girl we have been going out for over a month and she wants to have sex so do I but im scared i want be preparied for....

A.   2 January 2008: first every other answer you have is half correct and the other half is absolutly crape!! as a gay man who is 23 now i can tell you, if your being turned on by gay men and gay things then you are quite possibly gay! when your younger you thin... (read in full...)

My boyfriend ejaculates too quickly all the time, how do I help this?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together a year. We have sex fairly regularly, between one to four times a week. His problem is that most of the time he comes to soon. He likes to make sure I have an orgasm everytime we have sex, he's a ve...

A.   31 December 2007: gosh, i supose you can look at it as a compimet cant you?? although if its happening all the time then its possibly a different story, is he too embarrassed to go to see a GP? you may find they might have good answers... one thing which is g... (read in full...)

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