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My mom wants me to spend less time with my boyfriend!

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Question - (24 July 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 25 July 2009)
A female Canada age 26-29, *umpsuit01 writes:

Ok Here's my problem.

I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 and a half years. I love him to death and he loves me just the same, our relationship has had some really rough times and he broke up with me for one whole day. and we patchd things up and everything was fine. I spend alot of my time with him.

Now my mother keeps telling me I have to take a break from him, spend sometime apart, do things with the family, be home more often, etc. And I agree I do need to be home a little more often, but when I do come home I always get into a fight with my mom or my dad or siblings, there is always a fight going on. Or whe I come home my mom goes away someplce and I dont see her the whole time im home.

What should I do here i don't relaly want to spend less time with my boyfriend, due to...its perfect. we rarely fight, and we always have fun. But mom wants me to stay home.....I feel i need to make mom happy but i want to be happy too

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A male reader, i listen United States +, writes (25 July 2009):

it is natural for a mother to believe that you could be in a deep sexual relationship together exspecially if you spend time alone it is just mothers intuition i know many people say this alot but a sure her of here worries

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A female reader, EbonyBlossom United Kingdom +, writes (25 July 2009):

EbonyBlossom agony auntExplain to your Mum why you don't like coming home. She might be a little less resentful when she knows there's another reason other than just putting him first all the time.

Why don't you bring your boyfriend back to your place more often and spend time with both of them at the same time?

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A female reader, Starlights United Kingdom +, writes (24 July 2009):

Starlights agony auntspend an extra few hours more in the home, at least this makes mom happy, and see your bf the other hours so u can be happy.

dont see mum as interfering she has your best interests at heart!

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A male reader, jj. United States +, writes (24 July 2009):

are you under 18 if so i would listen to mom..if not you need to make up your own mind some time...its nice to ask moms help but sometime you have to make your mind up..and go with what your gut says can do it..but if your under 18,,take moms recommendation ,,spending more time with family isnt going to hurt will help..take care.

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