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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:All my life my family have been ruining my life and making things hard for me. I was with my boyfriend for 6 years and I have one baby and my family hate my boyfriend and they are always spliting us up. Now after 6 years my little sister is saying my boyfriend has touched her boobs and pubic area and she says he has only touched her once and that was 6 months and she has told my mum and my mum is stopping me from speaking to my ex boyfriend. She keeps changing her story and my mum wants go to the police please help me, I don't believe my sister.
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reader, love-him +, writes (20 August 2007):
 Anything like this is serious. either your sister has something realy wrong with her for lying about such matter, or she is telling the truth and you should go to the police. If they do infact go to the police then id assume she was infact telling the truth. but they have been your family all your life and you only know this man for 6 years, trust who you believe the most. I hope i helped, mail me if you would like to talk x
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reader, broken babe  +, writes (20 August 2007):
 by the way it sounds theyre trying to control you your old enough to say stop and decide for yourself your sister may be lying in order to get you back and your mom is helping id stand by your man if i were you
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2007): Innocent until proven guilty springs to mind here. Your family sound very very controlling and perhaps spiteful - there is no good reason for it. If there are justified reasons for disliking your boyfriend ok - but you know the answer to that and if he is a good guy then you need to be very firm and clear with your family that they stop the remarks and cruelty or you will be taking a break from them. If they still continue - carry out what you say and stay firm. I can tell you now that your relationship with your boyfriend will improve without the constant put downs and you have a right to be an independent woman - not a daughter or sister that gets abusive remarks like that. I wonder too how he feels about what they say about him? Pretty low I would imagine.
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reader, somewhat_anonymous +, writes (20 August 2007):
If you don't trust your sister, then stand by your ex. You aren't bound to your family at your age. It is easier said than done, but you may have to walk away from your family if they aren't truly concerned with your happiness and trying to control you. What other reasons do they have for not liking him?
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