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writes:I dated my husband for three years we've only been married for a month and have a two week old baby. but he tried to hit on my cousin who is practically my sister. he denies it but i know its true. so what do i do now? do i file for divorce? or stay and try to make it work for my baby?
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reader, xelax  +, writes (11 October 2008):
Divorce! im sorry i wouldn't stay with him...when he tries it on your cousin imagine what he may be doing with other women, im sorry i dont want to get ideas into your head but i would leave him. x
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reader, gembo +, writes (10 October 2008):
You don't have to stay with someone because you a child to them i brought my child up on my after i found out my partner had hit on my best friend and we tryed to work things out but it didn't work because i couldn't trust him anymore.So my advice would be to talk to him about it and tell him to tell the truth and don't lie.Then i suggest to have a break from each other and then talk again to see how you both feel after that,i know you have only just got married and had a child to him but it is not a nice thing to do.But if you both decide to stay together then i suggest marriage counselling for the both of you it is not heathly for you because your emotional too and your hornmones are all over still and it's not good for the baby too if your stressed and emotional your baby will sense it too hope this advice to you works.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (10 October 2008):
 Just tell him to knock off that nonsense and then keep an eye on him. Sometimes guys have to adjust to being a married man. Give him a chance but make it clear that you will not tolerate that kind of behavior.
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