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writes:My girlfriend of 6 months just went and saw her ex of 2 years for a drink which I no it was only a drink when I phoned her there was other people around them but she sounded very happy and would say she loves me in front of him she said she couldn't talk much because of who she was with and she did say it was him but she has been secretly Texting him without me knowing and says he is moving away hense why they went for a drink to say goodbye but I don't know if she still likes him and need help if anybody has been in the same situation she says she loves me and her and her closest friend say I can trust her which I do but I got worried about her seeing him please help I don't no what to do
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo I shouldn't doubt her anymore my brother is best friends with her best friend and she confirmed that he moved away today and there is nothing going on between them :)
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (19 March 2011):
 Yes, it could be bad. She could be lying and she could be cheating on you. Lots of things 'could' happen. Do you have any concrete reason to doubt her? If so, address that with her, so you can either put your mind at ease or move on. But stewing about what 'might' be going on with no more reason than your insecurities isn't a productive use of your time or healthy for the relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe said he is going away but how do I know it's not to cover it up?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBut she has said he has feelings for her but he cheated on her
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reader, C. Grant +, writes (19 March 2011):
Whoa, bud. Just relax. She's chosen to be with *you*. He's an 'ex' for a reason. They didn't work out, she's being gracious about it in saying good-bye. If you want her to have second thoughts about being with you, then by all means freak out about this and show her that you're insecure -- women find that a huge turn-off. If you want her to be confident that she's made the right decision in being with you, trust her. Let it go. He's going away, she's yours.
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