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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Ok so I have been dating this girl for about a year and lately this kid keeps posting stuff on her facebook about how awesome she looks doing her sports and how he wants to go watch her all the time and occasionally asks her to go to a party or something. She always responds nicely and says thanks and stuff when he compliments her, I have not really cared... I dont want to get mad at her about every little thing so I dont say anything about it. A long time ago, like 4 months ago the first time he said something like that to her and she reacted nicely I talked to her about it and she said he has a gf and not to worry about it. So I have not said a word to her about it since. Recently, he asked her to go on spring break with him and a group of people, i thought for sure she would just say no thank you but she didn't! She is asking them about it now and asking where they are going like she might go with them! This is starting to make me pretty upset, and I dont know whether to talk to her about it or just let things go and not act like a jealous boyfriend.
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (2 March 2011):
You have to trust your girlfriend. If you can't then your relationship makes no sense. So far I don't see any sign of cheating. You have to let her do what she wants. Then, if she cheats you, you move on. What is worth her fidelity if she doesn't cheats on you because she can't?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2011): mmm you do have a right to get your priorities straight in this situation ie: it clearly doesn't sit well with you and there is nothing wrong with that.
If you think he is a bit off and it sounds a bit off to me.
You need to talk to her and explain it's not in your make-up to disrespect someonme and by her communicating like she is seems to be sending some mixed signals to you could she please explain?
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