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writes:My girlfriend left for college about 4 months ago. We have been having a great relationship. Even after she left we still talked everyday. Then after about 1 month, she told me she was confused bout her feelings and wanted a break. She even fell for another guy. After asking my friend who is her roommate, I found out that she didn't really like that guy.We got back together. I even gave her a necklace for our anniversary. Things were kinda rough cause she had a lot of work and couldn't find time for me. I was kinda ticked cause she could find time to go out with her friends and I told her how I felt. I admit I was a bit controlling and jealous. I got jealous cause the guy she liked was part of the group she goes out with.Then just yesterday, she told me she wanted to break up. She said she wanted to get into a good university and that our relationship might be a distraction. I tried to convince her but she still wanted to break up. The thing is I am going to the same college as her next month and I'm even staying 1 floor above her.I don't want to lose her.She told me lets be best friends but I really want to continue our relationship. I really want to win her back. I really love her and can't bear the thought of losing her. She's everything to me. Please help me.
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reader, Jules22  +, writes (22 May 2008):
 i could be completely wrong but from what it sounds like i think there may another guy who she likes a lot but doesn't have the courage to tell you. it seems to me that the distraction thing is just an excuse. be careful because she is obviousely confused. try not be too jealous and possesive. that might me why she can't get the courage to tell you.
Again i could be completerly wrong so whatever you do don't go accusing.
Hope i helped
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