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My girlfriend asked if she can "share" me with her step-mother!

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Question - (6 May 2009) 6 Answers - (Newest, 6 May 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ok, I know how this is going to sound but I swear that it's the 100% God's honest truth. My girlfriend, who is 23 years old, lives with her step mother who was widowed a few years ago. I've been seeing my girlfriend for about six months. I get on with her step mother, she's a great laugh. A few nights ago, I was round there with my girlfriend and we were having a drink in the living room. Her step mother was with us too. After a couple of hours my girlfriend asked she could share me with her step mother. At first I didn't realise what she meant but the penny eventually dropped. I'll admit that her step mother is a very sexy woman and that I've certainly never been asked anything like this before. They said that they're not looking for any committed relationships, just exclusive no-strings fun. Apparently, they've been looking for a "suitable man" for a while! What should I do? Should I go for it? What are the implications of this?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2009):

you might as well go for it. I bet they already sharing each other.

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A male reader, Oggy United Kingdom +, writes (6 May 2009):

Oggy agony auntLol dude ur in, personally I would go for it, but as they say were young and dumb, but still, your only young once right ?? Soo personally I would go for it, just make sure u use a condom or the pill don't want any extra surprises !

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2009):

Yeah if you're comfortable with itthen go for it!

henri

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A female reader, hannita09  +, writes (6 May 2009):

hannita09 agony auntI mean if they are cool with it and you are cool with it i say go for it that's like a once in a life time offer most girls wouldnt say hey have sex with my step mom lol! Make sure they arent trying to play you though! Your girlfriend could be just setting up a trap to see if you go for it!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2009):

I'd just be careful they're not simply setting some sort of trap to check out your fidelity. Once you say it's a brilliant idea and 'your place or mine' you could be out the door!

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A female reader, kellyxxx United Kingdom +, writes (6 May 2009):

kellyxxx agony auntIts a bit weird but as long as you all discuss ground rules and a schedule then I don't see a problem. (As long as your not doing them both at the same time) use protection at all times and make sure they are on the pill too! X

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