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36-40,
*oliderswife06
writes:hi everyone well i just am very confused, i thought that my husband loved me and lately i just feel like he doesnt, i mean i admit ive done something; but there not anything that i wouldnt of done before we got married like going out with my girlfriends or going to a party and i understand that all im married and i have to give up alot of stuff cause im married, but i mean ive stopped all that and ive been tryin to show him that i love him and care for him and want nothing more but i dont know what esle to do. and hes always comparing me to his baby mother but then he says that he loves me more then hes ever loved her but sometimes i think that thats not true. and also hes always accusing me of just using him and only wantin him for his money, and i never show him anything in that type of way that i am always accusin me of cheatin and yes hes overseas but i just dont know how much more i can take of this and i just dont know if he really loves me or if hes still in love with her.i just dont feel like im good enough and i dont know what esle to do.ive talked to him ive screamed at him ive done everything and im done. i cant anymore but hes the love of my life weve been together for 3 1/2 years married for 1 1/2 years please help me. should i wait it out til he comes home or should i leave him.im so wore out.please. i need advice.
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reader, nologo  +, writes (6 July 2007):
 I guess you should wait till he comes home.Then you should talk to him about all this.Your concerns are clear - please discuss it with your husband.Marriage requires efforts from both partners - this is normal.
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (6 July 2007):
 Hi there,
I can see you are really worn out. There is alot going on in your marriage but what i do believe is that u really love him and i feel he does love you as well. In that case i can only advise you to try counselling. The issue both of you argue about i can see is resulting from further confrontations and both of you unable to handle the situations resulting from this.
Hope this helped abit
Goodluck. kelly.
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