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writes:Hey everyone,So lately I noticed that a friends boyfriend has been checking me out a lot,like it gets really awkward..when we are hanging out he would come sit next to me and talk to me more..and you know text at night..so I decided I'm just going to talk to him,I told him how uncomfortable it is and he should quit doing that..ever since I said that to him,I noticed my friend(the girl)has been acting wierd and I spoke to her asking what the problem was she said I should stop hitting on her boyfriend I was shockedd!!so this guy after I turned him down when to his girlfriend and told her I'm making the move,while I don't even find him attractive..pathetic!!and now she won't talk to me!I'v tried talking to her and she said I'm just saying that to not look guilty!I don't know wht to do anymore?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2012): If he's been flirting with you and you've turned him away, and now he's told his girlfriend you're hitting on him, that's typical behaviour of someone who can't take rejection, he's immature.
If your friend would rather believe him than you, there's not much you can do about it, but one day when he does cheat she'll see him for what he really is, and she'll wish she had listened to you.
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reader, SensitiveBloke  +, writes (20 August 2012):
 Have you still got any of his texts on your phone that you can show her? Not sure what else you can do. She'll eventually find out he's untrustworthy and maybe then you'll be able to restore your friendship.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (20 August 2012):
 so he was "checking you out" and he would talk and text... was he being friendly or sexual?
what makes you think he was hitting on you?
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (20 August 2012):
 If your friend doesn't see it, then she's being played a fool. What if you got a third party to tell her about it? That way you're left out of it and she can slap him back into shape. He sounds like a creep so whenever they break up (and they will) you need to remember he's a creep and not fall for his eventual come on later on.
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