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Though I am new in the world of relationships, I'm very interested in psychology, and I've read a lot on the subject of human interaction. I love providing help where I can, and I'm always there for those who need me. I don't believe in giving stupid, overly romantic advice, and I don't believe in criticising people harshly over their mistakes. I'm a young, yet lovable agony aunt, and I'll always be there if you need me ^-^

I love the attention of my BFF and feel bad when he has a girlfriend. What does this mean?

Q.   How can i know if i'm in a emotionnal affair with my male bff (i've known him for one year)? I adore my boyfriend but i like the attention i get from my bff he listens to me and notices me more than my bf it seems. I'm addicted to it I think like a ...

A.   27 August 2011: I understand where you're coming from. You're just being possessive,you're used to the fact that he is devoted to you, and that you and he are so comfortable in your little friendship bubble. You see his new girl as an outsider, and you're afraid ... (read in full...)

He broke up last sunday, yet he has a new gf? how do I get over my bf?

Q.   My boyfriend broke up with me last Sunday. I was having a hard time getting over it, since he's my first love. I thought I was going to be able to get him back. He didn't talk to me for a few days, and suddenly I was getting some strength. But then ...

A.   24 April 2011: Look, you're 15, and so is he. Guys at this age don't understand the concept of genuine affection and love. He may have been your first, but he definately won't be your last. I say, that if he's moved on, so should you. But before I give any in ... (read in full...)

My mom doesn't like the guy I'm dating so we are hiding it from her.

Q.   my dad died last january and now its only me and my mom, and now we are having arguments and fight because she wants me to stop my relationship with one guy because we have different race, religion. ive known this guy for 4 months only, and dated ...

A.   21 April 2011: Hey, first of all, calm down. I had the same situation. My parents are extremely overprotective, and they also don't like his race/religion.So after attempting to keep my mind off the guy I love, I finally gave in, and hid the relationship. After ... (read in full...)

Am I gay? Or is it a fetish?

Q.   i am a young lad an iv always believed i am straight ive slept with quite a few girls an never really questioned my sexuality until the last year or so. it started when i was told by a friend about his girlfriend slipping a finger up...

A.   21 April 2011: It is neither. You're probably bisexual, meaning that you find both men and women sexually appealing. Relax and enjoy the ride. Maybe your significant other will turn out to be male, or maybe after some experimenting you'll find that you like women ... (read in full...)

I still have his jacket...should I give it back?

Q.   Hey, My ex broke up with me about 6 months ago- but we've had this back and forth thing where he'll call me every 2-3 months (drunk and sober) saying that he misses me, that i scare the shit out of him. There's an age difference between us I'm 2...

A.   19 April 2011: Good, I'm happy for you, the sooner you move on and forget about him, the better. @dirtball: I don't find it offensive, its just strange calling someone that I respect by such a ... disrespectful name. How in the world did you wind up with suc... (read in full...)

My friend says he wants to date me...now it's weird hanging around with him!

Q.   One of my friends told me he was starting to like like me, and now i find it weird to hang out around him. what should i do?...

A.   19 April 2011: Make sure that he knows that you're not interested (or are you? Because then just go for it), and not with subtle hins, outright talk to him about it. I've had this happen to me 8 times, because all of my friend are guys. Trust me, after you talk to ... (read in full...)

What is the difference between love, lust and attraction? And why do teenage girls seem to prefer the fast boys most?

Q.   i want to know the differences between love, lust and atraction between two people. And why is it that so many teenage girls seem to be atracted to the fast boys (boys who move fast to try to get the girl interested in them, and then move fast on ...

A.   19 April 2011: I think love, lust and attraction have been pretty well defined by the last two people, but I would like to add in my own breakdown nonetheless. All of the emotions listed above are often mistaken for love, so why not divide love into three ... (read in full...)

Messy breakup is making me question myself, what is happening to me and how can I make it stop?

Q.   I broke up with my girlfriend with the intention letting her roam about for a while before I went off to college, to let her see if she really loved me enough to stay with me despite the fact that I was away. (As an ulterior motive though, there was ...

A.   19 April 2011: First of all, you need to calm down. The symptops you mentioned do sound like those of a depression, and if you continue this way, it is possible for you to form an erectile dysfunction. Your girlfriend was acting rashly, girls are prone to emoti... (read in full...)

I still have his jacket...should I give it back?

Q.   Hey, My ex broke up with me about 6 months ago- but we've had this back and forth thing where he'll call me every 2-3 months (drunk and sober) saying that he misses me, that i scare the shit out of him. There's an age difference between us I'm 2...

A.   19 April 2011: What 'dirtball' (sorry if it sounds offensive, its his screen name) says is correct. This guy is obviously a very pathetic specimen, who still isn't completely out of his teenage diapers. You sound like you're a woman who deserves so much better ... (read in full...)

How can I get him to see that I really love him and I have no interest in any other man?

Q.   Hi i hope you will be able to give me some advise. I have been with my bf for just over a year now. He went through quite a nasty break up with his wife of 25years, she came home one day and told him that by the end of the month he must move out...

A.   18 April 2011: I have the same problem. My boyfriend's ex cheated on him with his best friend, and when confronted, she told him that she had been pity dating him, that she never loved him, and that he was never going to go anywhere in life. My boyfriend's already ... (read in full...)

I still have his jacket...should I give it back?

Q.   Hey, My ex broke up with me about 6 months ago- but we've had this back and forth thing where he'll call me every 2-3 months (drunk and sober) saying that he misses me, that i scare the shit out of him. There's an age difference between us I'm 2...

A.   18 April 2011: Return it, it can be a form of closure for the both of you. The note is a good idea; thank him for the memories. You'll probably find that as soon as you let go of the jacket, you'll find it easier to let go of him as well, since there won't be ... (read in full...)

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