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writes: Back in January, my friend wanted me to meet her boyfriend. We made plans, but I got sick and couldn't meet with them. My friend got very upset with me and wrote me a long e-mail saying how I "flake out" on plans and so on. I apologized for not being there and said I look forward to meeting him the next time he is in town.Well, things have been awkward between my friend and I because she would still make remarks about the whole situation, even though it's now 6 months later. Well, he came into town last weekend and though she mentioned him coming into town, she didn't call me once and basically disappeared. She told me what their plans were, but we didn't make specific plans.I feel confused because back in January she made such a big stink about me not meeting him and when he does come back into town, she doesn't call me to meet him. It's like I only had once chance to meet him and now I can't. My friends and I tried to contact her, but she didn't reply back to us until after he left.What is going on here? I don't understand what happened. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionA friend of mine has met him, so he does exist. When I finally talked to her she sounded stressed/tired and I guess there was a lot going on with her family. So I think she just had a lot going on which is why she wasn't really communicating with us. She asked if I could meet her for a drink after work this week, so I'll catch up with her then.
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reader, EbonyBlossom  +, writes (2 June 2010):
 She sounds really weird. It's true she could be lying. It's obviously a problem with her and not you if she's ignoring your other friends too. Just don't bother caring. When she realises you don't care then she might start to make an effort again, if not, then it's her loss, not yours.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (2 June 2010):
Neither do I. I half wonder if she's lying about this boyfriend or something. Has anyone actually met him? Either than or she really isn't someone you need as a friend.
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