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writes:Hi there, thanks in advance for offering me some assistance: )A friend and i were planning a trip overseas and the other day i asked him if we were still on board with it. They said of course we were. However, they later made a joke that they'd just ask another friend of theirs - susan - and go with me to a totally different trip some other time. They seemed to be joking about this, so i knew that we were still on track with the trip we had been planning. Then on a social networking site the next day, i saw that this friend and susan are indeed planning on going on the trip! I don't know why my friend wouldn't tell me this and i feel like they have plans with me and plans with someone else - but for the same trip! it feels confusing and i want to talk to them about it but i don't want to fight or look jealous. could you please offer me some assistance? Thanks :)JEn
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2012): Thanks to you all! Much appreciated :) xxx
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (6 August 2012):
 Just ask the friend straight out. Tell him you are a little confused. Are we going or are you and Susan going or do you think all 3 of us are going?
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reader, oldbag +, writes (6 August 2012):
 Hi
Just ask outright. Its not causing a fight or looking jealous,its asking a totally reasonable adult question.
If I were you I would plan to go with somebody else though,this person sounds too flaky and unreliable.
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reader, Just Gill +, writes (6 August 2012):
 Hi, just explain to your firend that your confussed. They will ask why and you can tell them that you were under the impression that it was You and them going on the trip. You didnt realise that they had changed their mind and was now taking susan. Explain that as a friend you would like the respect of being informed. Dont sound angry, sound curious as to why your friend didnt tell you.
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