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writes: I'm a 15 year old female. And I had sex with a 24 year old male. I just found out I'm pregnant. My parents want to send him to jail. But can I just lie to the doctors, etc? I dont want him to go to jail. What do I do? Reply to this Question |
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reader, bodylotion +, writes (14 July 2006):
 Im sorry but this man weather you like it or not is your babies dad and you will have to tell everyone he is or who else are you going to say it is?Also 15 is a very young age to be aving a baby.Are you sure you want to keep it?This way you wont have to explain about the farther.
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (12 July 2006):
 If you lie about who the father is to protect a sexual predator, then who *are* you going to say is the dad? You'll probably want to put something on the baby's birth certificate. And the child deserves to know about his/her genetic history.
There's no lying about this. The fact that you'd even consider it tells me that you're still a scared kid -- not mother material!
Admit to the authorities what's happened and let the criminal do his time.
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (12 July 2006):
 im sorry but theres no lieing to the g.p you can deny it and not answer any questions about the dad. and tell your parents you want this child and as you are going to become a mom which means you have to grow up and they are to treat you like an adult they have to listen you dont want the dad going in prison and if they send him to prison you will tell this baby when she or hes older who put their daddy in prison. and im sure up in court if you answer no questions on the dad and there is no evidence of the dad he wont go 2 prison
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2006): Why lie? If you love this man and he loves you; you had this relationship knowing the possible consequences and choose to be with one another.
You, a young girl, being pregnant by a grown man- I think your parents are right in charging him. Even when you have your baby, DNA testing can be done to further implicate him.
I say if he truly loves you, he chanced the danger of being found out and did so anyways; so let him face the consequences of his decision.
Maybe this will teach him to not go seeking after underage girls...did you stop to think why a grown man would resort to finding a girl and not a woman his own age?
He is full of fear and can not stand rejectment from a woman, an equal so he turns to a girl...definitely not hero material.
Lying never solved anything. Truth has power and wants to be made known.
Own up to the truth girl and you should be thankful you have such loving parents in your life, your baby and you will need them.
*hugs*
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