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writes: My bf is kind of egotistic sometimes and it makes me so upset. I mean, I know that everyone has an ego once in a while, but it really bothers me. And see, it never bothered me before until recently, basically since I figured out how little time we have until he signs up for the Army and I am not sure if I am just looking for reasons to break up with him like subconsciously. You know, so that I save my heart from pain if he doesn't come back... I am really confused on what to do and I talked to him recently and he said that if what people are saying actually happens - I mean if this war becomes a world war then he won't go, but I still worry. I mean I have always worried. I have been with this guy for 7 months. How do I get over this searching thing and like fast! And is that why little things about him bother me? Please help and soon. I am in over my head!signed-totally confused Reply to this Question
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (12 July 2006):
 Well I think that there is a chance that you are looking to break up with the guy subconsciously. Being in the army is dangerous regardless of the situation in the world at large but its understandable you would have this anxiety given how the news is.
Do you love this guy? Have you noticed these things before or just now?? If they have only recently become an issue then it is possible that this is because of the army thing.I think you need to clear your head and get to the bottom of what you are feeling. Write it all down, it doesnt even have to make sense, the important thing is that in writing your thoughts and feelings you tend to try and concretise and order them. See if that helps. Take care.
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