He's addicted to granny/golden showers porn! Should I stay with him or leave?
Q. Hey, Im pregnant, and quite happy with our relationship, but theres always something nagging in the back of my mind. My boyfriend never had a g/f before me, so he has always relied on porn. I can accept porn to an extent, i even like a bit of a ...
A. 7 November 2006: This a very unusual case,you say you have a healthy sex life but he likes porn.Well yes men do weather it be old or young woman or men in some case but not 14-15 year old girls.I dont think it is even leagal for girls that age to be porn stars.Just ... (read in full...)
I had a miscarriage, will this harm my body and can I have future children?
Q. Hi, I had a miscarriage the other day and i am just interested if anybody knows if it harms my body in anyway or even damages my eggs at all?...
A. 18 August 2006: I shouldn't think so but do try and relax as it only happened the other day. however get to your gp and get youself checked over just to be sure as there is never an 100percent chance that someone is right.(aka me)... (read in full...)
I get to choose between 2 girls! How do I choose?
Q. I have a tricky situation. In brief..... I really like two girls. One called Girl A, and one called Girb B. Myself and Girl A have like each other since we met 4 years ago and have been seeing each other on and off since. I met Girl B 3 weeks ago in ...
A. 1 August 2006: This isnt right.You cant just pick and choose who's emotions you play with and which girl you want.My advice is dont go out with any of these girls and find a new one.That way you can still be freinds with them both but nothing serious.Also these ... (read in full...)
I get to choose between 2 girls! How do I choose?
Q. I have a tricky situation. In brief..... I really like two girls. One called Girl A, and one called Girb B. Myself and Girl A have like each other since we met 4 years ago and have been seeing each other on and off since. I met Girl B 3 weeks ago in ...
A. 1 August 2006: This isnt right.You cant just pick and choose who's emotions you play with and which girl you want.My advice is dont go out with any of these girls and find a new one.That way you can still be freinds with them both but nothing serious.Also these ... (read in full...)
I need to hide a hickey from my parents, so they don't know where I've been!
Q. hi... I really need help and fast. I spent the weekend with my boyfriend. My parents don't know about it and if they had ever found out that I would be in so much trouble. I got away with them not finding out that I was with him. The only thing th...
A. 1 August 2006: Well when i got an hickey before i pretended i had a sore throat and i wrapped a scarf around my neck.I also covered it with make up really thick.... (read in full...)
My pregnant girlfriend says she want's to be a single mum
Q. i'm 17 and my gf is 15. she has just found out that she is pregnant. we did have safe sex but obviously not safe enough. we have been seeing each other for almost two years now and i'll admit that i love her very much. she says that she is going to ...
A. 1 August 2006: It is obvious this girl doesn't want you and she is now using the baby as an excuse.But the baby is yours and even if you and the babies mother arn't together you still have rites to see this child.If you cant get in touch with her is there no way ... (read in full...)
Im 15 hes 21, I think hes too old, but chat alot anyway, plus my friend also fancies him!!
Q. hi i am 15 and i like this 20 yar old we talk all the time and we get on really well but the thing is that i think he is to old for me. My mates say that it doesnt really mater what age they are. He tells me that he is in to me and that he fancys me ...
A. 1 August 2006: You are right this man is far to old for you.He is an adult you are still a teenager.Also phone sex isnt really that bad and it may make you feel mature but at the end of the day this man will soon want real sex with you.Think about it wen you were ... (read in full...)
I get nervous talking to my BF on the phone!
Q. I am 12, almost 13, and I am have been going out with my very first boyfriend for about four months now. It is summer vacation now and my boyfriend and I have been calling each other. I am not the type of person who enjoys talking on the phone, but ...
A. 1 August 2006: I do that to.Its very hard on the phone as you dont know what they are doing.Well try relaxing and sitting down.Dont
stand up and think about him and what he may be doing.Just speak to him as you normally would.Remember he proberly feels just like... (read in full...)
Scared to have sex since I lost my baby
Q. 5-6years ago i fell preganent. And i lost my baby at 7-8 months. I've been with me man for 4 years. I'm so scared to have sex. I think about making love every day. But i'm to scared. How can i not be scared???? ...
A. 1 August 2006: It is really normal to be scared of having sex after your baby was lost but if you dont want to get pregnant then use a condom.Just because you have sex it doesn't mean you have to get pregnant does it?Also you could use counciling which will help ... (read in full...)
At first it lasted for hours, now it lasts minutes... Is this a sign he's going off me?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend a year. When we first met, usually between 2-4 times a week, we would be having sex several times a night and again in the morning. These sessions seemed to last forever. We would be all over each other as soon as we ...
A. 14 July 2006: I dont think he has gone off you i think that he may be expieriencing some sort of stress realted time.Confront him about this and see what he says.There may be nothing wrong.But if there wasnt he wouldnt be botherig about weather he was satisfyig ... (read in full...)
Im really upset about his sexual past and feel im not good enough!!
Q. My boyfriends sexual past is ruining our future. He's slept with over 100 women and it just kills me that it's so many. He's been with prostitues as well. I am a very insecure person and I think I can't satisfy him like they did. He says he's never ...
A. 14 July 2006: Dont be so silly.Try not to put yourself down.If he says he loves you then take his word for it.But dont try to be better then the others just be like yourself.Make sure you have considered everything before you go ahead and form a more serious ... (read in full...)
My folks want to send my 24yo paramour to jail, because I got pregnant!
Q. I'm a 15 year old female. And I had sex with a 24 year old male. I just found out I'm pregnant. My parents want to send him to jail. But can I just lie to the doctors, etc? I dont want him to go to jail. What do I do?...
A. 14 July 2006: Im sorry but this man weather you like it or not is your babies dad and you will have to tell everyone he is or who else are you going to say it is?Also 15 is a very young age to be aving a baby.Are you sure you want to keep it?This way you wont ... (read in full...)
He's a good friend, and we've been out together. But how can I persuade him to make it a proper date?
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend of 10 years a month ago and I was very depressed. A friend of mine (we were not close) offered to keep me company, so that I wouldn't dwell on the past. He offered thrice and I eventually took up the offer and we went ...
A. 14 July 2006: I think this so called freind is just using you for one thing.Not meaning to offend you or upset you but it is a large posibility.Dont make any sudden moves on this guy you just broke up with your boyfreind.Enjoy your bit of time you have to ... (read in full...)
My grandchild is very nosy and she doesn't understand somethings just aren't her business!
Q. Hi i have ten grandchildren who i love to bits and i know they love me. each one of them has their own individual personality, however one of them worries me. the grandaughter in question is a thirteen year old busy body who spends all of her days ...
A. 3 April 2006: I understand your problem as i come from a family who as a child who has the same behavour.She as resantly stoppped as she has got older but she was really bad at 8 and 9.Your grandaughter is at an age were she shouldn't be doing this but don't just ... (read in full...)
Found out my boyfriend has been seeing strippers... And they're men!
Q. Hi there, I am a 23 year old girl from the West Midlands. My boyfriend is 24 and I have found out recently that he has been spending loads of money on going to see male strippers - after finding receipts in his jacket. I also found photos of him hu...
A. 3 April 2006: Mabe he likes the company of men around him.Mabe he gets excited around them or mabe he was just planning a laugh with his mates.Another thing could be that,well not something a girlfreind wants to ear but mabe her could be gay and be having some ... (read in full...)
Lost my way and ended up sleeping with my ex...
Q. I've been in a relationship a while with a girl, I stopped giving advice and visiting dear cupid incase it freaked her out, but now I need help. With my new girl Claire, there just isnt a spark. We kiss, and it's good, we hug, and mess about, but ...
A. 3 April 2006: First of all why are you with clair?It's unfair to keep the relationship between you going if their is no spark.Tell her how you feel and explain your situation.Also
you slept with your freinds girfreind.Tell him as he would proberly get told anyw... (read in full...)
I cry myself to sleep because I'd *love* to be a teenager in America... And not stuck in this miserable Northern, English dump
Q. Hiya I don't know what do about this, but I'm really unhappy. At my school in a poorer area of Northern England, the girls are all really bitchy and unkind and the boys don't want to know you if you aren't a slut. At the beginning of Y7 (my firs...
A. 3 April 2006: These people are acters and actresses.Also the dream of being a cheerleader you can become one this country.I was a cheerleaderut i left after a few weeks as they were all
bitchy towards me.So don't just think because they look good and nice on tv.T... (read in full...)
My mom won't let me do anything!!
Q. hello there! im a teen in need of help. Me and my mom used to get along very well but everything is so different. Now that im 15 (turning 16 real soon) she treats me different. She's very old fashion and girl/boy relationships are new to her. She ...
A. 1 April 2006: All mothers are protective.But as you said that your mot wasn't bothered before so why is she now?Mabe something has
happened which you haven't relised.Talk to her and ask her why she has changed.Mabe she'll say she hasn't but mabe she will give... (read in full...)
Unhappy with him or unhappy without?
Q. Hey. Im 17 and my boyfriends 18, we've been dating over a year now and ever since the begining our relationshi has had problems. Alot of them have involved his ex and im so sick of it. He lies to me, and treats me horriably. i want to break up with ...
A. 1 April 2006: You need to get out of this relationship.No matter what you will feel without him you will feel double if you stay.
You don't deserve be treated horribly.Your still young and
there are plenty more fish in the sea.Once you feel over the relation... (read in full...)
This split is DESTROYING me, please help!
Q. My girlfriend broke it off a while ago and it seems that I just can't get over her... I love her to death but I know that I have to get over it because it's not the same way for her. Everybody tells me time will fix things but it just seems...
A. 1 April 2006: I no this may seem hard to do but stop thinking and hopeing.This relationship was never going to work.Theres no if's what's or anything about it.You shouldn't let this get you down.Try seeing a councerler if your feelings for her keep getting you ... (read in full...)
I'm too young for sex. What other options do I have?
Q. Dear Agony Aunt, I'm 12 and i really want to have sex but I'm too young. Is it okay to masturbate or is there any other options?...
A. 1 April 2006: MASTERBATING IS NORMAL SO IF YOU FEEL COMFORTABLE DOING THIS THEN GO AHEAD.BUT DON'T BE THINKING ABOUT SEX FOR ANOUTHER FEW YEARS AS YOU ARE WAY TO YOUNG FOR THAT SORT OF THING.GO AHEAD AND GET TO KNOW YOUR BODY BUT DON'T HVE SEX UNTIL YOU ARE ... (read in full...)
Found my brother and our stepmum in flagrante!
Q. I am 15 year old girl and yesterday I caught my 17 year old brother having sex with our 30 year old stepmum. I was totally disgusted at the sight of brother and stepmum going at it like rabbits the moment they caught sight of me they jumped out of b...
A. 1 April 2006: YOU NEED TO TELL YOUR DAD STRAIGHT AWAY.EXPAIN TO HIM WHAT YOU SAW AND WHAT YOUR BROTHER HAS TOLD YOU.ALSO TELL HIM WHAT IS WIFE AS BEEN SAYING ABOUT HER NEEDS.TO ME IT SEEMS SHE WANTS A PLAY BOY.AND HAS HE HIS ONLY A YOUNG TEEN HE IS EASYER TO ... (read in full...)
Is getting tanned the way to get attention from the guys?
Q. A question for the men: do you prefer women who are pale or women who are tanned? I ask becuase I find that women with tans always seem to get the attention from men and I have pale skin and I often go unnoticed....
A. 1 April 2006: HEY CHEER UP IT'S NOT THE END OF THE WORLD.THERE ARE PENTY OF PALE PEOPLE OUT THERE AND PLENTY DARK PEOPLE.WHATEVER YOU DO DON'T USE THE SUNBEDS BUT A THING YOU CAN DO IS GET SOME FOUNDATION AND USE THAT IT WORKS A TREAT.THE BEST TO USE IS THE CREAM ... (read in full...)
I'm 12 and pregnant! HELP!
Q. I am only 12 and i am pregnant.Me and my boyfreind wo is 13 nearly 14 used protection but it split.Only me and him no but i need to no what to do.PLEASE HELP!(i have gone a few weeks)...
A. 31 March 2006: YOU ARE FAR FAR FAR TO YOUNG TO BE HAVING A BABY.I AM GLAD TO HEAR YOU USED SOMETHING BUT THEY ARN'T 100 PERCENT.I HAVE TO AGREE WITH ASK PHOEBE IT WILL AFFECT YOUR LIFE IF YOU KEEP IT.AND PLEASE LET YOUR PARENTS KNOW HAS THEY WILL BE DEVISTIATED IF ... (read in full...)
She's chatting to her ex again. But I like him. But she's soooo beautiful! What will happen?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have this friend. Let's just call her B. B and I have been friends for practically our entire lives. We love each other like sisters, and she's one of those people that I'll be totally sad to leave when high-school grad...
A. 31 March 2006: Well you shouldn't really bother.She isn't dating him or anything is she?Just go for it and explain to your freind that you like him.Mabe he likes you or mabe he doesn't but don't break you relationship up between your freind over a crush.Hope it ... (read in full...)
She used to be a swallow!
Q. My g.f used to swallow after Oral sex. Now, she wont. She jumps up and runs to the bathroom and then i hear her spitting. I could understand if she never did that before. But SHE HAS!. ...
A. 31 March 2006: What do you expect?She proberly accidently swallowed it before or mabe she was trying a new way.But now she's relised that she doesn't like it and thats why she spat it out.She proberly doesn't mean anything by this so don't worry and be grateful ... (read in full...)
Does she fancy me??
Q. Hi guys! Wondered what you think to this. There's a girl I work with and we get on really well. I'm not usually one to get involved with people I work with but she seems different to all the rest. There have been quite a few times where I think that ...
A. 31 March 2006: I think this woman has the hots for you.Go for it whats the worst that can happen?she says no.Just ask her if she's single or not then take it from there.Then if she's in a relationship you know not to flirt anymore but don't ask her in a flirty way ... (read in full...)
I stayed after school and ended up having sex with my ICT teacher!
Q. I really fancy my ICT teacher. Then last night I stayed at school late to finish my dida (ICT ) coursework, and during that time, me and my teacher were talking and he leaned over and kissed me. We ended up having sex and now I don't know what to ...
A. 31 March 2006: Glad that you decided what to do:)... (read in full...)
I called a break and now I want him back, how do I go about it?
Q. I got this problem. I dated this guy for almost 5 years and recently i thought i had feelings for another guy so, we took a break. But it turns out i didn't have feelings for that other guy it was the same guy all along. I love him more then ...
A. 31 March 2006: If you both feel the same then go for it.But first are you still in a relationship with the other man?if so explain how you want to break up then you are free to date who you like but pease don't cheat on him as remember you chose him over your ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend likes to aggrevate me about my breasts, why does he do this?
Q. my boyfriend of almost 2 yrs. will make jokes about my breasts. saying they are little and all, but then when I try to ignore it he will make another joke, then it bothers me and he will apologize and say he is just joking and that my breasts are ...
A. 30 March 2006: I don't mean to upset you saying this as this is what i think.But it seems to me that the things he says about your breast being small are what he really feels but he appologises then you won't relise what he is doing and ditch him.... (read in full...)
Mum doesn't want me to have a boyfriend, and she can't tell that my boy-mates are just my friends!
Q. My mum is really old fashioned and doesn't want me to have a boyfriend or even have anything to do with boys. But my two best friends at school are boys. I don't fancy them or have any physical attraction to them. They are just friends, although we ...
A. 30 March 2006: Your mum is living in the past.Nowerdays when you have a boy as a freind it dosen't mean you fancy them.But your mum see's it has wrong and you musn't do it.How are you ever going to find a boyfreind if you are never allowed near them?.I am not tell... (read in full...)
Been chatting and emailling with a girl... What's a good time to ask her to dinner?
Q. I met a girl on the internet recently, and we have been emailing back and forth for the last few weeks. We have this thing going where we ask the other person 20 questions with each email, and then they answer them and send 20 of their own when they ...
A. 30 March 2006: First of all whats the age gap?If it is O.T.T. then don't bother with it but if you are the same age then go for it.You know enough about each other so the next thing is to meet up.But don't be surprised when you meet if she's not what you ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 with facial hair can any one help!
Q. At what age should i be looking to shave at as im 14 and already I have facial hair. what should i do please help asap...
A. 30 March 2006: Hey don't fret.Shaving accures through all different ages. But only shave when you feel ready don't just shave for the sake of it like d4u04 said it grows back faster and thicker.Good luck with this.... (read in full...)
I slept with someone else...do I tell my boyfriend?
Q. Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for nearly two and half years and I love him very much. But this weekend I went to see my friend and I slept with another guy. I don't want to break up with my boyfriend, but I feel that I need to tell him ...
A. 29 March 2006: The shortest answer i can give you is YES! tell him as you will alway feel gulity about this.... (read in full...)
Is getting tanned the way to get attention from the guys?
Q. A question for the men: do you prefer women who are pale or women who are tanned? I ask becuase I find that women with tans always seem to get the attention from men and I have pale skin and I often go unnoticed....
A. 29 March 2006: If you want a tan use creams ect.Don't go on the sunbeds as they can seriously damage your skin.... (read in full...)
How do I end this friendship!?
Q. Hey people, When you truely know a friendship is over how would you address it..been having problems with my best mate and i know that we are too different and this mate always accuse me off always talking about her..i know i don't mak...
A. 29 March 2006: Tell her to her face.You can't keep pretending that you like each other.Tell her and try not to feel to gulity.Or you could ring her,email her or simply leave a letter.But don't leave it any onger as it will get harder and harder.... (read in full...)
I feel torn between moving on or staying put, please help!
Q. hey. Have been goin out with my boyfriend the past 2 and a half years. Lately i have been having feelings for another male. I sometimes think i need to be single for a while but I am afraid my boyfriend will move on and meet someone and I will reg...
A. 29 March 2006: You want to break this happy relationship up for a fancy crush?It's very hard now to find a decent man so if i was you i would keep hold of him and don't break up.If you did do for a while don't be surprised if he has been snatched by other girls.He ... (read in full...)
His family is abusive towards me and he don't do anything about it. What should I do?
Q. I have been living with my fiance (of 1 yr only) for the past 4 years. Same age but I was married with 2 children. His family does not accept me, verbally and physically abused me already. He has done nothing. I am not allowed to any functions etc. ...
A. 29 March 2006: He his hurting you phsically?Get out of this relationship.It's clear to me that he cares about his family and not you when they are around.Don't expect him to change has "A leopard never changes it's spots"Work out what you want from him.Do you love ... (read in full...)
I'm almost ready to come out as bi, but I'm still married, any advice!?
Q. hi there, I am 32 married with 2 kids, but I have a VERY big problem..I'm fairly new to the area we live and have struck up several friendships with new woman but with one this is very different, I have fallen in love with her in a BIG way..This ...
A. 29 March 2006: You are married so first of all you have t explain to our husband on what you feel.If you feel for a wom whom you only know to be your feind you will be throwing it all away for a crush.Mabe you feel that you want to try a new sex well tell your ... (read in full...)
I met a man, but he's married!
Q. I met a man a little over a week ago when I was at a club last weekend. I noticed him from across the room and one of my friends went over to him and he came over to our table. We ended up really hitting it off it was amazing and I think at that ...
A. 29 March 2006: Stear clear of this man.He his married after all.Also he says he never cheated.Well why does he want to be with you?He his a married man and you would destroy his marrage.Even
though he says it is going bad you shouldn't be the one to cause it go a... (read in full...)
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