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writes:My fiance and I have been together for a year now. We recently had another deep discussion that lead to him revealing problems he had with me. One of the problems that I can't understand is the fact that he told me that he doesn't have fun drinking and partying with me anymore. I do not flirt with any other guys nor do I get sloppy drunk. I do not get drunk easily but I know my limit. We used to argue when we drank because I was very insecure. That hasn't happened in a few months. What am I doing wrong? Or is it he misses the single life?
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reader, NORA B  +, writes (10 March 2013):
Hi Mrs Fiance.Many kind thanks for your follow-up. Im so sorry that your were hurt more this time with your boyfriend .Its TIME now that you ask him where this relationship is going because there is no point in you getting hurt again and again. Kind Wishes Nora B.
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reader, Mrs. Fiance +, writes (9 March 2013):
Mrs. Fiance is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe don't plan on getting married until we both graduate college. And it's not that he wants to stop drinking, it's the fact that he still wants to drink and party, but not while I'm around. I'm sort of the one who wants to stay in with friends and drink. But I have opened up to partying like he does.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (9 March 2013):
 I believe that - as long as you superimpose alcohol over/upon the goings-on that lead to this question - you are ALWAYS going to have this question.....
Why don't you and he go "on the wagon" for about 6 weeks, and see if you really like/can tolerate one-another then and under those circumstances.....
Good luck..
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reader, Mrs. Fiance +, writes (9 March 2013):
Mrs. Fiance is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you, Nora! He has addressed this issue before but this time it was more serious and it hurt worse.
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reader, NORA B +, writes (9 March 2013):
Yes i can understand your confusion but maybe the problem is not with you .Maybe yoiur boyfriend has got bored with drinking and parties and not with You. Have a chat with him and ask WHAT IS THE REAL REASON oonly then will you know for sure. Best Luck. Nora B.
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