A
female
age
41-50,
*im41
writes:Hello again!This is my second article.Well I am with a guy for about a month and im having a great time, when my daughter lets us alone of course.There is always fantasy when we have sex and he seems to want me alot too.Last time he took me to meet a friend of his.Then we left him and went to a hotel to have sex.We were cuddling and talking after that when he asked me if i ever been with 2 men same time.I blushed but then realised that he was asking for real and trying to get me into it.I said no but he insisted that next time he will bring his friend and we all just drink and have fun.I said him to bring him but i dont promise anything.Ah what shall i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, TimmD +, writes (28 April 2010):
 If you don't want to do it, then just tell him. Don't let him pressure you into something you don't want to do. But if you're somewhat open to it, then make sure he knows to take it slow.
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female
reader, It's all be okay  +, writes (28 April 2010):
If you don't want to have sex with a second man joining you, then don't. Simply as that.
Frankly, I would not go for the drink. "bring him but I don't promise anything" sounds like there is a chance something will happen.
You haven't been with this boyfriend for very long, and he doesn't seem to be respecting your views very much, especially at such an early time in your relationship - a time when you'd expect him to be really really nice to you.
I would say that you're only interested in sex with him, and not with anyone else, now or ever, and he'd better get that clear and not push you again.
If he doesn't listen, dump him.
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