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My boyfriend's still seeing his ex. I know, because SHE told me about it!

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Question - (3 November 2005) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 November 2005)
A female , anonymous writes:

Hi

Well, to cut a long story short, my met this man about a year ago and he spent 8 months pursuing me 'cos he said that as soon as he saw me he wanted to be with me.

Well, eventually we got together and everything was perfect. I love him still, even now.

I found out he was sending texts to an ex-girlfriend saying he loved her and that he had kissed another girl whilst he was drunk- found out all from the ex-gf. She swears they were going out, everyone else says it was just sex. He says he has no excuse. She came back and said she loved him and he "didn't know what to say" so he said it back- apparently because he didn't think I loved him, and he got 2 difefrent things from each of us.

Thing is- I still love him and am going crazy not being with him. What should I do?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2005):

Im not to sure what it is your saying, has he left you for her and now you dont have him? or is it jus you think his cheating?

If you think his cheating, how reliable is that source? the ex-girlfriend? common am i the only one seeing a jelously thing here, where the ex may be jelouse so tries to break you 2 up?

How well do you know the ex, are you best freinds? Do you really know her that well?

And if this is the case that your relying on her word, how much do you trust your boyfreind?

Im confused with the question, but if you two havnt broken up, ask him if he has and if you really love him, tell him that and trust him if he says he hasnt, if you have no trust, a relationship cannot work

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (3 November 2005):

eyeswideopen agony auntHe's a player, dump him or you'll be in for a constant world of hurt.

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