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writes:my boyfriend wants a break, it has been exactly a week. he told me that he wants some time to appreciate his company, and that he is really taking me for granted right now. he also has other issues, saving money for a holiday and moving into a new house, working everyday etc. i asked him when he wanted to get back together and he said he just wanted some space for now and doesnt know how long. but every few days he iniates contact with me through msn. yesterday he even video called me on skype because he wanted to see me. and today he spoke again. should i just keep letting him initiate? what does this mean??
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reader, BBee  +, writes (11 October 2010):
I totally agree with Xanthic. Ignor him altogether. He is using you. If you best friend told you the same thing you just told me, what would you tell her to do? Move on sweetie. Stop talking to him altogher. Don't answer his phone calls, block him from MSN, don't go anywhere he goes. If he does get in contract with you, tell him flat out, "LEAVE ME ALONE." He is NOT going to change and he is the one with a problem not you. Say bye bye to this guy.
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reader, xanthic  +, writes (11 October 2010):
 He's feeding you such a bullshit line, and at this rate might as well say 'We should break up because I love you too much'. It's a cover for something else, he's saying these things and giving you false hope to keep you hooked all while he has his fun and plays the field. He's trying to turn you into a Plan B in case someone better doesn't come along, basically.
Drop him and find someone that's sure they want to be with you, not undecided about it and giving excuses in order to see what else is out there.
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