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My boyfriend is very jealous, how do I help him to not be so jealous, and to love me more?

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Question - (28 July 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 29 July 2008)
A female Lebanon age 16-17, anonymous writes:

what does a girl have to do with her boy friend like sexual things?

what to do when your boyfriend is really galous?

what to do to keep ur boyfriend inlove with with you?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2008):

I totally agree with Kinky Boots so I suggest you read that advice again and listen strongly to those words.

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A female reader, Kinky Boots United Kingdom +, writes (28 July 2008):

Kinky Boots agony auntIt is not up to you to HAVE to do things!!! This makes me so mad to read. If he is jealous, then give him an ultimatum, he either packs it in or you pack him in. Dont put up with this kind of behaviour, it is not acceptable and very very sole destroying. Tell him that you are with him, because you want to be and you wont be going off with any other blokes, but if he continues this jealousy then your relationship wont last. Also you dont have to do anything sexually to keep him, that is the worst reason. If another person wants be out of the relationship then there is nothing in the world that you can do to keep them. Be yourself, and if this isnt good enough, then tell him to buggar off.

Life is too short.

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A female reader, Annalisa United Kingdom + , writes (28 July 2008):

Annalisa agony auntBe yourself, act according to what you believe to be right and only do what you're comfortable with.

Respect your boyfriend, be nice, relaxed, friendly, talk and be fun.

BUT if he acts in any way that makes you unhappy, tell him and be ready to dump him, unless he shows you love and respect.

Love is a force of nature, it either exists or it doesn't: just like gravity is constant, true love is kept constant by respect and friendship.

Clear enough?

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A female reader, O Connor Ireland + , writes (28 July 2008):

O Connor agony auntyou can do nothing. you cant buy his love with sexual acts. you cant make him love you. you cant keep him in love with you. no offence but these are VERY immature questions. a girl your age should know that the age old presumption of giving him sex so he'll love you is complete bull.

your boyfriend sounds like a real jerk. jealousy, pressure, playing games with you. wat to do? my guess is dump him.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (28 July 2008):

eyeswideopen agony auntYou don't HAVE to do anything sexual. What you do if your boyfriend is really jealous is dump him, that is a red flag. There is nothing you can DO to keep your boyfriend in love with you, either he is or he isn't.

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