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He wants to have a baby and forced me to have unprotected sex

Q.   hello, im writing here because i have a problem with my boyfriend. i am about to turn 16 in a few weeks and he will be 20 in a few months. everything started off great,we`ve been together 4 months, but last night we were talking about our futures ...

A.   7 March 2010: i guess just stop seeing that guy he forced you know later also he will force you..as for the pregnancy i guess you should tell your parents about all this..... (read in full...)

In love with someone who doesn't even know my name.

Q.   Ladies, I am seriously in love with this one girl but she doesent even know my name I've tried talking to her but I don't know what to say how to impress her or what girls like. I'm not after sex I really love this girl but don't know how to talk to ...

A.   2 March 2010: well boy if you really love her just go and tell her hi or ask about your respective subject probably this way she will start talking to you but dont rush into things give it sometime.start wd friendship first... (read in full...)

My boyfriend and father of my three kids won't marry me

Q.   ok the question i need to know is should i stay or leave? I have been with this guy for 6 and a half years and have three kids with him. Im only 21 and i want to get married and i feel like im wasting my time. He always tells me he does not want...

A.   2 March 2010: you already knoe the answer ya he cheated on you that also 3 times how can you trust him again.he is not ready to marry you then what kind of a father he is who is not responsible for his own kids.you are just 21 right now you have your whole life ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has posted a picture of me - bikini clad- on his facebook and now it's attracting unwelcome attention

Q.   My boyfriend decided to post a page of me on tagged. With pictures of me on my bathing suit. It is attracting all sorts of pervets to the page some much older men. I don't like it. One his friends has now seen the page and I find this shameful. I ...

A.   2 March 2010: dear he has taken you for granted..just tell him to delete your picture or else tel him if you dont do that i wont talk to you.if you let him do all this later there will be hell lot of problems..... (read in full...)

She said she'd get back to me, but still no word four months on

Q.   Okay, so I'm a middle-aged guy and I e-mailed this woman I went to high school with to see if she wanted to get together and chat sometime. She said she was busy with work, etc., and then finally e-mailed me that "I reeeally want to get together ...

A.   2 March 2010: i guess probably even you must be thinking that she is not interested cuz see its 4 months and she didnt even contact you or something so its better if you don't expect anything from her and move on..... (read in full...)

Emotionally confused.... Pretty messed up... Please help.

Q.   Hey there, I was wondering if someone could help me in this confusing time. My girlfriend of 4 years just left me for very odd reasons. I support her through everything she does and tell her I love you everyday and that she is beautiful everyday, no ...

A.   2 March 2010: i will just suggest you one thing stop talkng to her i know it sounds easy and difficult to do but atleast think that she doesnt evn respects you thats why she is spreading all this nonsense about you.you will find the right girl who truly deserves ... (read in full...)

Should I ask if he wants a girlfriend or just sex?

Q.   this guy that i met online we were chatting on msn. HIM: there are lot of hoes out there ME: i didnt know that HIM: you tell me ME: how would i know more like you tell me HIM: so your decent then? ME: well i dont sleep around so i'd like ...

A.   1 March 2010: i personally think that you should stop talking to him...... (read in full...)

Emotionally confused.... Pretty messed up... Please help.

Q.   Hey there, I was wondering if someone could help me in this confusing time. My girlfriend of 4 years just left me for very odd reasons. I support her through everything she does and tell her I love you everyday and that she is beautiful everyday, no ...

A.   1 March 2010: well you should try talking things with her i guess she is pretty confused right now in what she wants to do.maybe something is bothering her just try to comfort her and if she needs space pls give her.... (read in full...)

Never told me he had a girlfriend but now she's angry. What do I do?

Q.   This guy I was talking to lived 2 hours away. I just found out he has had a girlfriend from the start. We started talking mid January and he never told me. He kept saying how I am so pretty, and amazing. And so much more. He said he wasnt talking to ...

A.   28 February 2010: i guess you should go and confront him and just ask him questions which are in your mind once its done stop talking to him because see if you have a boyfriend and if he is talking to some other girl that also too much then obviously even you are ... (read in full...)

I want to keep my virginity until I am married, but my current boyfriend wants to get intimate. How do I deal with this?

Q.   I recently started getting "serious" with a guy I like and we are pretty happy, except I'm really nervous about one thing: sex. I'm still a virgin and no, this is not my 1st relationship-the problem is that my last one ended because the guy was ...

A.   27 February 2010: well,just tell him if you love me please respect my decision.if you dont wanna lose your virginity just tell him a no.in this way you will get to know if this guy really loves you or no.... (read in full...)

How to deal with resentment?

Q.   I'm 14 and I'm suffering from resentment, its KILLING ME! The guy that I'm in love with, doesn't love me any more and he's moved on. I hate him , he lead my best friend on and did other things that made me feel small.I stopped talking to him s...

A.   27 February 2010: hey candycurves, even i have been through a lot of painful breakups but when your heart breaks it takes time to heal.your ex-boyfriend show him that you are really happy without him and genunine happiness don't pretend.why are you wasting your lif... (read in full...)

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