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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend can't make me orgasm! It's really annoying, no matter how turned on I am when we're together, nothing seems to work! When I'm doing it to myself I can do it easily, like, within a matter of less than 15 minutes. I take careful note of how I manage to come, but when he's rubbing me he always rubs really hard, or pokes his finger up, so that it soon gets de-sensitized and even hurts a bit and I know he wants me to come so much that I feel too pressured sometimes to relax. I'm getting very depressed and am seriously worried there's something wrong with me. Sorry about the intimacy of this question, but my boyfriend and I need help!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2007): JUST TELL HIM WHATS YOUR FANTASY;]
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reader, AskEve +, writes (12 August 2007):
 There's nothing wrong with you, you just need to talk to your boyfriend and TELL him exactly where to touch you. He doesn't know where your sensitive spots are and how to touch/stroke them so you need to tell him. Tell him when you're in bed one night you're going to teach him how to really turn you on then get him to watch YOU do it for a minute or so. (Yes... YOU! lol) Tell him to be very gentle and rub like this or like that. This will save him fumbling around in the dark so to speak and will put an end to your frustration. Don't be embarrassed to talk about it, it can be very erotic and afterwards he can teach YOU how to really turn him on (this way he won't feel so bad thinking that you had to show him,)
Just have fun together and enjoy one another's bodies. Communication in any relationship is always the best way.
Eve
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