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My boyfriend always talks about sex and treats me like an object. How can I get him to stop?

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Question - (10 February 2010) 6 Answers - (Newest, 27 February 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, *oot woot its aliyah :] writes:

I have a boyfriend who only talks about having sex with me. I feel it's disrespectful and he randomly pulls out my shirt to look down it. How do I get him to stop?

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (27 February 2010):

Laura1318 agony auntTell him that you will tell your parents that he is harassing you and if does not stop , you will report him to the school authorities or the police.

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A male reader, The Realist Canada +, writes (27 February 2010):

The Realist agony auntTell him to back off and don't have any more contact with this guy. He might persist but if you hold up he will give it up.

Sorry to hear about this. I hope everything works out for the best in the end.

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A female reader, Woot woot its aliyah :] United States +, writes (27 February 2010):

Woot woot its aliyah :] is verified as being by the original poster of the question

It didnt work.i had to leave him becuz he desided to hit me.now i have a bf i dated b4 but now my ex is tryn to get me back and is starting with my current bf.any advice to get him to leave me and my bf alone?

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A female reader, Woot woot its aliyah :] United States +, writes (11 February 2010):

Woot woot its aliyah :] is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks to everyone who answerd me.im gunna try those n c if it works.ill keep u posted.;-)

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (10 February 2010):

Tell him straight to either stop, or you'll dump him. And mean it. Clearly if he doesn't stop, then he doesn't respect you enough.

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A male reader, The Realist Canada +, writes (10 February 2010):

The Realist agony auntFirst of all I hope thats just a hormonal phase that he is in. This may sound bad but I'm sure that it will work. You can train him like you would a puppy. When he goes for something like you described push him away and tell him no, but then don't give into his pouting. Also reward him when he starts to be romantic when he wants to start something sexual. He's always going to be sexual but if he approaches it in the right way then it should be fine. Give it about two weeks depending on how much you two see each other and if things don't change by then you'll have to tell him straight up that you won't be staying with him if he keeps it up, or you could just do that one right away its up to you.

Good luck.

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