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My bf's brother is living w/ us and it's ruining our relationship! I think I'm now falling for my ex again!

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Question - (16 December 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 26 December 2006)
A female Canada age 36-40, *weetiegirl writes:

I live with my Boyfriend and his brother in a two bedroom apartment. Now i love my boyfriend alot but i am starting to hate living with his brother he's useless as fuck. and I find i am doing everything around the apartment, i told my boyfriend that i want to move in to a one bedroom place but he doesn't want to leave his brother, and i told him that if we didn't get our own place that i don't think we would be together for long.

now to make matters worst my ex boyfriend who i was madly in love with starting coming around again and we are talking again, but i am starting to fall back in love with him, and to find out he still loves me with all his heart. But i still love my boyfriend too. can anyone help me

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A female reader, sweetiegirl Canada +, writes (26 December 2006):

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sweetiegirl agony auntHi everyone I found my Help I was looking for I just realized that I loved my boyfriend alot and noone should get in the way of that. Plus we taked about his brother and we decided to give him a month to find an another place and we then were going to get one of our own, as for the EX, I remembered why he was an EX and not a current and told him that I could still talk to him but he was not to say one word to me about feeling something for me, but I doubt if we will speak again.

So thanks for the great advice everyone and I hope to help others like they helped me.

P.S Congrads to me, he proposed Christmas eve, we're ENGAGED. XOXOXOX

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A female reader, sweetiegirl Canada +, writes (16 December 2006):

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sweetiegirl agony auntthanks eddie for the advice

I am 20 years old

i uset to live with my mom and my grandmother before i moved in with my boyfriend.

we live in a two bedroom apartment and i haven't cheated on my boyfriend and have no plans on doing so it just. i just talk to my ex online and old feeling are coming back but only because my current b/f and i never have time alone anymore so we are not as couply as i would like to be.

i would never cheat on my boyfriend i do love him but if things don't change i can see us breaking up and me going back to my ex.

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A male reader, eddie Canada +, writes (16 December 2006):

eddie agony auntYour desire to live with alone with your botfriend is understandable. How old are you? What were the living arrangements before you came along? While the living situation might not be exacatly what you'd like, you're creating the another problem by adding your old flame to the mix. That, is totally your fault. You want your boyfrined to kick out his brother, in the mean time, you're starting to cheat on him. That's not very nice. Here's a picture for you, he kicks his brother out, his brother gets angry, you leave your boyfriend for your ex, and your boyfrined is left with a brother that is angry and no girlfriend.

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